Let Them and Leave Them To...The Same

 I am tired and I am freezing! Today was one of those days when the chill just bit through me. It was also one of the days when my brain was overloaded. To think this hard makes me want to sleep and sleep deep. Turn it off and let it all play out in some serendipitous fashion. Every detail of the methodical thoughts. I live a charmed life and I am a lucky girl!  I am tired and if I go sit on the couch it will be nite nite time. Something about the cold and deep thoughts, it's mentally grueling. I will briefly touch on, other than some holiday decor... shopping has yet to begin and it is weighing deeply in the gray matter, Along with ambiguity and ubiquitous specifics! #supracalifragilisticexpialidocious 

To get through the holidays is my goal like everyone else I am sure. The kid and I are going back and forth about what to cook? What sounds good? and does it even matter? IDK maybe a roast this year with all the fixn's... throw it in the Dutch oven one and done.., do a cake of sorts. Who knows I have time to think about it. It doesn't seem important right now. It has no value at this time. 

With all that has happened and not happened this year, listening to my own voice of reason is resonating loudly. As I tell my students! (vision board class) Let them! Watch what happens after you. You see exactly where the problem/issue was and deciding on finding yourself and prioritizing yourself is more important than waiting on someone who can't level up and express the need for growth, stagnancy is a disease. Where there is compliancy there is no peace. It is just the same. It is just what someone knows and what they refuse to work on to enhance what could be. Leave them to themself and cut off anyone who can not understand or respect your boundary. Keep your peace at all cost!

This is how I have deep-dived into it. Once someone has had their big hurrah they can't now compare or compete with what once was. The regret is deep and they long for what life looked like before. It is like the guy who was a great athlete in high school. Last game of the season. Senior year! It's down to the last 15 seconds, the hail mary is called and the punt is kicked... a second before the buzzer...  the ball goes through the goalpost. It will go down in infamy and that kid will relive that moment for the rest of his life and every chance he gets when remembering he will never ever again have that accolade or moment! Throughout his life some small wins some big fails... he will long for that recognition and notoriety! and nothing will compare or come close! It will be locked in... that life is over!

Those that cannot repeat or find the greater sink and become callous. They become bitter and even jealous when someone else strives for their dream. It's hard for that person to come to terms with someone else's ideology because they can not have a do-over for theirs! You can't go back!

It doesn't matter if I say or preach, you are never too old and it's never too late to find a new path toward enlightenment, advancement, or to learn to be happy with the way you have molded into some other form of higher achievement. We all see the person who settles for less because it is easy. It takes no effort to gravitate down, mix in with the blighted or comply with lack or subpar. It requires no effort to sink, slither and slide to the bottom. {Drink another, smoke another pack, pop another pill, cheat on it, f,,k it away, bury yourself into misery and by all means don't you dare move from it!} Victimhood seems to be the place for them kind. Let us choose the path with the most resistance while looking for ways to stay the same and complain about it... I can not imagine rolling over to someone, a person you settled on because that individual tolerated the less than nothing. I suppose though when you have nothing to begin with at least that's something! Right?

You can't compete where you don't compare. I personally am not responsible for your reaction or how someone feels about my growth, the lane I chose to take, and the studies I embarked on. It is progress, I also am not responsible for anyone's lack of where with all because they have stayed in the same place or position. Doing the same cheesy moves and calling the same shots in outdated patterns that have resulted in the same outcome. {for attention, adoration, and because they can't be alone} People get angry when you do not stay the same as they once knew you to be and they have a hard time accepting you aren't the same as them. Once you learn something it can't be taken away and once you see something you were blind to before it can not ever be unseen now. Education is a beautiful thing! Awareness is even better!

It is easy to throw daggers and insult, belittle and degrade when manipulation and control are being used, to keep someone down. It goes back to those who have had that hurrah once in life no one else now is allowed to have theirs! If they keep you small... it keeps you as low as them. Or the flip side of another coin, if someone who never could achieve any hurrah, if they constantly keep you guessing at your worth it takes away from you never seeing their lack of... #freindsinlowplaces #trailersforsaleorrent 

I have reminders for everyone that when you choose the same you get what you got! and what's worse is the person who shoots his mouth off trying to be the big guy around only realizing by that shortcoming he shot more than his own foot and now that person is crippled with regret compiled with a pain that will not go away! #golddigger 

It says so much about a persons character when another has to lash out and put you down because someone chose to go a different route while that person keeps going down the same. Small-minded exudes lack of intelligence and it often comes out in ugly ways. Besides how dare someone actually better their life. Right?

If you are interested in taking my Life coaching class using a vision board as a tool, reach out kitryn_marie@yahoo.com to schedule 65.00 private or group The class is based on psychology 

The lesser of evil usually finds the same...only a greater opponent of self


Kitryn Marie

#lifecoachingforwoman 














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