Pretty In Pink... Perfect In Paisley!

Life really does seem to be a whirlwind right now. It just happens to be one of these times in life where anything goes, there are no confines to the direction. Can you say that? Have you not learned the best-laid plans never go accordingly anyway so why not enjoy the "whatever happens" moments. If we learn to live in the moment, you never miss the opportunity at hand. When you live in the moments and go with the flow with no real plans made and you learn you can relax knowing you don't have to control a thing...nothing is forced and a certain clarity sets in. Ya know that clarity that makes you see the real in all things. No false pretenses and you don't have to be anyone then who you are. "To thine own self be true" It was once said, "never attach yourself to something you can't walk away from. " Funny about attachments! Is it because you become so dependent on the situation you lose sight of who you are? You find yourself meshing into the ...

Can you imagine what it feels like to stand on the edge and leap into the unknown? Can you imagine what it feels like to have your heart beating so fast you can not catch your breath? Can you imagine everything you ever dreamed of having with that certain someone in your life, that you have longed for?  So it would seem that is what we base love on... I often wonder what would happen if we did not base the concept of love on a feeling or an emotion. How in control would be about our decisions on choosing a mate? How would our life vary and differ if we chose based on other factors? One would have to ask, "What's love got to do with it?" Have we not yet learned why we choose the way we do and who are influencers have been on this nothing new topic? We are products of our environment... look at how your folks or any coupled adult who had any part in your life acted towards each other. We all learn from what we see... and as adults, we mimic what we know! The patter...