Pretty In Pink... Perfect In Paisley!

Just as there are rules of engagement, there are rules for intimacy. Intimacy cannot be faked. A person can have sex with anyone and fake that but to have true intimacy it is learned through trust. Trust takes time to build. The true-end result or the happy ending does not just come from an explosion of bodily fluid. Oh don't get me wrong that particular act is quite the finishing touch to sex... but that is not what intimacy is all about. It is extremely difficult for a woman to be completely honest and open when trust has been depleted, obliterated and destroyed. Knowing their past partner cheated beyond the realm of the meaning and understanding the facts to how many women there actually was and the type of women his male appendage had found its way in. Intimacy is not to be shared with just anyone... but sex can be had with many. When there is no consciousness or a feeling attached, It just becomes an act... with the end explosion. There is no trust factor needed when you h

I look for a time when I can close my eyes and know all is right with the world, my world... possibly your world. There is no specific time for grief. It all comes down to what feels right again and when you can wake up in the morning without something from the past that does not crawl up into a memory and make you heart wrenching cry. When you have lived years with a situation, a person,  hope, and so many plans made for the future. Not all grief comes from a death, although death comes in many forms. Want to create real murder, tell someone you love them and then disappear on them with no trace except for a few text, a few drive-bys, a few pics sent of their new f..ks and an email that exclaims the abuse they know they caused... without any apologies for behavior or any way to take back the years given and wasted with someone who did everything  in her power to make their life together work. You want a real-life haunt? Pay attention to your dreams and where your thoughts go? Pay at

If Rome was not built in a day, how is any entrepreneur expected to believe that business is just going to boom overnight? Too quick people give up on the ideas because they see no forward rapid advancements. Everyone who has a thriving business, once had an idea, a notion, a belief and a vision. It all started with this dream. Possibly the idea came based on a dollar amount they needed to make. Maybe the person decided they no longer could work for anyone else. The ideal situation would be, there was no one else doing, offering the service or no one else had the product... so Mr or Miss decided they could embark and create the niche needed! Or possibly, maybe... someone just got tired of everything life handed them... and it was not enough! (I can relate) Have you stopped in your tracks and really asked yourself if you are happy doing what you do for a living? Has that dollar amount in your billfold stopped you from "creating" the life you want to live? Do you have ideas a

Today's view is not for the faint of heart. Up front, I will tell you, if anything I have written before does not make you think twice, then nothing will. It will prove you have not one ounce of etiquette or socially conscious. It is said that " you become the average of the five people you associate with ." Those people that you most associate with influences your thoughts, behavior, and language. Where you have taken on specific behavior and certain traits have become your acceptable norm. (Please do not mistake this with political correctness. I am not making some liberal type statement here.) If your words cannot be said to your mother, daughter, sister or banker, don't you dare make comments inappropriate to me or to anyone else that does not deserve respect in any conversation. If you have associated your life in dive ass taverns and or prisons and or the likes of uneducated degenerates that have absolutely no respect towards women and or mankind... do not bot

Every once in a while a person needs to step back and examine their motives. We each have this idea and an expectation what we want in our life, what lengths we will go through to get it, a need for a standard to which we will allow in our life and or to live. We imagine and dream what is meant for our life because of our core, our traditions, what and who we have been influenced by and who we strive to become. I have seen so many grubby handed men and women who have used and taken advantage of people to get ahead, to have their kids cared for, to get boob jobs,  to have room additions put on, trips and concerts paid for, and or to have a place to live. I have seen it over and over these people will do almost anything to not have to do it for themselves. I often wonder where is their pride? Where is their work ethic? Who taught them this behavior and why do they think it is acceptable? I have seen grown adults prey on their parents for money, to bail them out of trouble when things