Pretty In Pink... Perfect In Paisley!

Typically I do not write two posts in one week, but since I am a more than a little unnerved, I felt it necessary. There is something to be said about life coaching. First and foremost though let me say, even as a coach (any of us that do coaching,) each day we deal with our own life's issues. We each have a story that has brought us to where we are! We are not above nor or any of us perfect. We all have shit to come to terms with and how we each deal depends on the rational behavior of our emotions. (I make a point to tell my people this!)  Right now, to say the least, I am angered. It is said one of the healing processes of grief is; when you get to the anger stage... 1. you can talk about something without crying and 2. you are ready to take back your life by an action. An action... a call to stand up and out and do something about what happened.  Nope, I am not perfect. (perfection is an entity that leaves you chasing your tail tyring to achieve something that can not hap

Choice or chance? Your attention goes where your energy flows.  They don't like you! Claim to be glad they are rid of you but yet they check your page/post and even share... what I have written! Love it! Thank you! My stats are climbing and my reader interest has grown! My Pinterest page is off the charts! The haters gonna hate and my money source is gonna continue to flow. Ya know for the girl that was looking for someone to take care of her! ( I hope you choke on your beer!) Other than the wonderful  opportunities and growth that come from my writing, painting instructions, any of my art endeavors and or mentoring in my coaching groups, In order for me to really care about your (the haters) opinion, at this point in my life, I seriously would have to give a fuck! (ooo harsh) and I don't! Be very careful of the girl that has learned to be so independent (even with a supportive loving spouse figure) Finding wings and taking roots is a powerful combination. I am allowed to

The subtle art of making friends, is there such thing? I am at a point in my life where if loyalty has not been in place, I have absolutely no reason to speak with you or speak kindly of you. If my friendship has been abused, taken advantage of and if you have not been able to defend me in my absence than I do not need you in front of me or anywhere in my life! Period! Loyal true friends are hard to come by! They show their colors once something else is of benefit to them elsewhere. I am very well aware of how busy all our lives become. We get caught up in jobs and doing things with our kids and (now grandkids). We work on our homes and do things with our "spouse figure" but that does not excuse sending that simple text of "hey, I was thinking of you! How are you?" Yes, I know it goes both ways! (which I have sent a few)  I find my friendship was good enough when I was saloon tending, The convenience of frequenting a place for a bit of camaraderie and a cold beve

Life really does seem to be a whirlwind right now. It just happens to be one of these times in life where anything goes, there are no confines to the direction. Can you say that? Have you not learned the best-laid plans never go accordingly anyway so why not enjoy the "whatever happens" moments. If we learn to live in the moment, you never miss the opportunity at hand. When you live in the moments and go with the flow with no real plans made and you learn you can relax knowing you don't have to control a thing...nothing is forced and a certain clarity sets in. Ya know that clarity that makes you see the real in all things. No false pretenses and you don't have to be anyone then who you are. "To thine own self be true" It was once said, "never attach yourself to something you can't walk away from. " Funny about attachments! Is it because you become so dependent on the situation you lose sight of who you are? You find yourself meshing into the