Matching Your Ambitions And Drive... There Is No Settling Or Compromises
I'm trying to stay up on my game. Here it is Jan 10th Full moon at large and feeling all the crazy energy that has been descending. If I believed in werewolves I'd be sport'n silver bullets. If I believed in vampires Id be wearing an Italian truckload of garlic... but I don't believe in either! None the less... the crazies are out and I am staying up on my agendas and being very vigilant on "whats a happening" in the universe.
I want to tell you about the recent email I received from a girl in Toronto. ( a long way from St. Louis but very happy to see outside the states, I'm being seen) Her inquiry was about finding someone with her same ambition and drive. The oldest child of a firefighter who worked himself into a tizzy never coming up for air but instilling the principle of always having a match in drive. She asked, "What good is chasing a dream if your partner does not meet the same match?" She goes on with, "my dad lived for his paychecks. He based his whole life on what our providence paid him for his job. He was afraid to venture outside his expertise, a trade of sorts he learned right out of school. A man with good work ethics but really no drive to explore what else he could have been really good at. {We all might know someone like this} He was a fine man but woke up one day and his life had passed him and there was no longer anything left for him in his life. Him and my mom depended and budgeted on a measly paycheck... when he could have been so much more. The desired match had no drive. It was a conjunction of what he wanted to teach me.
She says she is seriously dating someone with a hard work ethic but he always plays it safe. ( a similar situation like her father) She goes on to say she wants more and is not willing to settle for a standardize paycheck. She is a makeup artist and travels the countryside for a photographer. {kudos to her}Her question is, "why should I compromise my dream and ambition if my partner does not have the same drive... I want more and I don't think love should be enough if the whole picture is not there? Am I supposed to settle? Cause I see no compromise."
I read the email several times because one, I wanted to get a true personal feel before I could answer and 2. I wanted to give my honest answer.
As a woman who has based her whole life on wanting to fall in love and at a point in life, a firm believer that love conquers all... IT DOES NOT! In love fades and if it is not there, in the beginning, or all the connecting components of it; it never will get there. If you are not passionate about anything in your life and there is no equal amount of passion in your relationship; there never will be a reason to settle or draw a fine line that would make you want to compromise but this is just me. Equal ambition and drive striving for the same RISK taking opportunities strengthen what you are both willing to do for the sake of getting to that higher elevated stance in this life. Just because a situation may seem easy that does not make it right. There has to be equal drive and equal ambition based on the same passionate situations. Love is not going to get you to your dream if there is lack of... it will never be enough and you will end up resenting the person because you settled on and compromised on what your heart has had its mindset on!
That is the truest heart-based opinion/advice I could give her. Too many people give up on their ideas and their passionate dreams to be with someone they love because they think love will conquer all. It is the biggest myth taught to us all.
I do not expect everyone to agree with me and that is ok. I spent years with someone who preached, "don't throw in the towel" and that was exactly what he did. There was not one iota of equal ambition and drive. Although there was passion it was not enough to sustain any idyllic situation of any kind... because it was never enough. What I had to settle and compromise on took away from my dreams, where I wanted to go and with what I needed to do to achieve and at the most, his best drive went between the same 10 people and the same 2 bars and the 5 women he cheated with.
I know what sacrifice looks like settling for (and do not take that out of context)... it makes really bad bedfellows. I truly learned the hard way and for me... I won't allow anything any longer to take me away from the desired match or drive and living that ambitious passionate lifestyle that's been in my head for decades. If people want to live paycheck to paycheck and they are willing to give up on what else is out there for their highest good or for a higher calling, it is a death sentence. One day that person will wake up and nothing will be left but paycheck stubs stuck in some box that says they worked for a company that paid them weekly, biweekly or monthly... it does not matter because that will be all they have to show for a good work ethic that lacked passion towards something greater than.
If you have a question or would like to send me an email it is 15.00 per question kitrynmarie@gmail.com you can pay thru paypal.me/kitrynmarie If you are in the St. Louis Mo area and you are looking for someone to help you navigate through your next journey in this life I'd love to have you in my coaching class for Creative Minded women. https://kitryn-marie.weebly.com 90.00 for in-person one on one coaching buy 5 classes @90.00 ea and recieve the 6th class for free. Online 1 hour 55.00
I am setting up new classes for 2020. I hope you stay tuned and follow along for what 2020 has in store for my life. Big things are happening and I'd love for you to be a part of this passionate lifestyle!
Be Happy Be Blessed,
Kitryn Marie
Ps: and for this full moon, watch your own energies and what feelings come up that might be triggered. If you are not happy with where you are right now... you might want to think about your own karma and what you gave up, settled for or compromised on that has gotten you right where you are!
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On another note
I want to tell you about the recent email I received from a girl in Toronto. ( a long way from St. Louis but very happy to see outside the states, I'm being seen) Her inquiry was about finding someone with her same ambition and drive. The oldest child of a firefighter who worked himself into a tizzy never coming up for air but instilling the principle of always having a match in drive. She asked, "What good is chasing a dream if your partner does not meet the same match?" She goes on with, "my dad lived for his paychecks. He based his whole life on what our providence paid him for his job. He was afraid to venture outside his expertise, a trade of sorts he learned right out of school. A man with good work ethics but really no drive to explore what else he could have been really good at. {We all might know someone like this} He was a fine man but woke up one day and his life had passed him and there was no longer anything left for him in his life. Him and my mom depended and budgeted on a measly paycheck... when he could have been so much more. The desired match had no drive. It was a conjunction of what he wanted to teach me.
She says she is seriously dating someone with a hard work ethic but he always plays it safe. ( a similar situation like her father) She goes on to say she wants more and is not willing to settle for a standardize paycheck. She is a makeup artist and travels the countryside for a photographer. {kudos to her}Her question is, "why should I compromise my dream and ambition if my partner does not have the same drive... I want more and I don't think love should be enough if the whole picture is not there? Am I supposed to settle? Cause I see no compromise."
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I read the email several times because one, I wanted to get a true personal feel before I could answer and 2. I wanted to give my honest answer.
As a woman who has based her whole life on wanting to fall in love and at a point in life, a firm believer that love conquers all... IT DOES NOT! In love fades and if it is not there, in the beginning, or all the connecting components of it; it never will get there. If you are not passionate about anything in your life and there is no equal amount of passion in your relationship; there never will be a reason to settle or draw a fine line that would make you want to compromise but this is just me. Equal ambition and drive striving for the same RISK taking opportunities strengthen what you are both willing to do for the sake of getting to that higher elevated stance in this life. Just because a situation may seem easy that does not make it right. There has to be equal drive and equal ambition based on the same passionate situations. Love is not going to get you to your dream if there is lack of... it will never be enough and you will end up resenting the person because you settled on and compromised on what your heart has had its mindset on!
That is the truest heart-based opinion/advice I could give her. Too many people give up on their ideas and their passionate dreams to be with someone they love because they think love will conquer all. It is the biggest myth taught to us all.
I do not expect everyone to agree with me and that is ok. I spent years with someone who preached, "don't throw in the towel" and that was exactly what he did. There was not one iota of equal ambition and drive. Although there was passion it was not enough to sustain any idyllic situation of any kind... because it was never enough. What I had to settle and compromise on took away from my dreams, where I wanted to go and with what I needed to do to achieve and at the most, his best drive went between the same 10 people and the same 2 bars and the 5 women he cheated with.
I know what sacrifice looks like settling for (and do not take that out of context)... it makes really bad bedfellows. I truly learned the hard way and for me... I won't allow anything any longer to take me away from the desired match or drive and living that ambitious passionate lifestyle that's been in my head for decades. If people want to live paycheck to paycheck and they are willing to give up on what else is out there for their highest good or for a higher calling, it is a death sentence. One day that person will wake up and nothing will be left but paycheck stubs stuck in some box that says they worked for a company that paid them weekly, biweekly or monthly... it does not matter because that will be all they have to show for a good work ethic that lacked passion towards something greater than.
If you have a question or would like to send me an email it is 15.00 per question kitrynmarie@gmail.com you can pay thru paypal.me/kitrynmarie If you are in the St. Louis Mo area and you are looking for someone to help you navigate through your next journey in this life I'd love to have you in my coaching class for Creative Minded women. https://kitryn-marie.weebly.com 90.00 for in-person one on one coaching buy 5 classes @90.00 ea and recieve the 6th class for free. Online 1 hour 55.00
I am setting up new classes for 2020. I hope you stay tuned and follow along for what 2020 has in store for my life. Big things are happening and I'd love for you to be a part of this passionate lifestyle!
Be Happy Be Blessed,
Kitryn Marie
Ps: and for this full moon, watch your own energies and what feelings come up that might be triggered. If you are not happy with where you are right now... you might want to think about your own karma and what you gave up, settled for or compromised on that has gotten you right where you are!
