Pretty In Pink... Perfect In Paisley!

There are people in love that are not together. There are people not in love that are together and then there are those that are going through the motions hoping somewhere along the line it is going to work out. That one-sided relationship where someone sees things for how they hope it's going to turn out to be. They do not see the situation for how it is because they refuse to see it... for how it really is. False hope is a dangerous creature. Unrequited love is full of just that. **We have also a "group" of people who are together for convenience. Money is the factor, someone is providing a roof and there is some forcible action that is constantly held over their counterparts head. "But I did this for you." If it wasn't for me you wouldn't have" "Because of me, your life is better... that's only if you go along with my PLAN and PLAY by my rules" "You can't leave. You have nowhere to go" "You can't afford a l...

It does not matter where you go in this life as long as you remember where you have come from and how your start began! It is pretty plain and simple and one needs to always be reminded no matter how far to the top you climb; you can very easily slide back down to those humble beginnings. No one is better than anyone! Although there are those that will present themselves to appear to be greater than thou and there will be those that are educated a bit more in a field and there will ultimately be always/always those just damn lucky that they got a break to help them get themselves to a "higher" platform. Talent and a charmed life do not go without some attitude adjustments... some that really do feel they are above and their delusions of grandeur and greed have taken quite the form of their personalities. As a woman who follows and has studied from some of today's motivational creative speakers and DIY's,; Those who started at the beginning with nothing but some raw ...

"They" wonder what happened and how dare you to have become this monster ! They have epically failed to look at their own actions in what caused this grand morpha-sized change! No, I am not the same person... but then again look at your reflection. Who have you become? Change comes when you recognize patterns and you cocoon yourself (alone) to become more beautiful than anyone ever could have imagined with wings so delicate you take nothing for granted anymore and you delightfully laugh at the bull shit they are living now! I have I said it for years, wings and prayers, the things that need flight and sight! A reintroduction, I am Kitryn Marie. I am a writer, artist, speaker. I am a personal mentor and a biz coach. My former self, a woman who has always worked, had a hand always  in food and beverage (even today) and loved waay to much; focusing all my efforts into a man that made me believe I was not enough and constantly talked about "potential." The thi...

In the last several weeks, I have been defining the end of the year 2018 results. The good, the bad, the indecisive and the guidelines I have set for "staying in your own lane!" With those boundaries in place, I am reminding myself the goal in mind what I need to achieve for me! I  clearly see my end result of where 2019 is going to take me. What is important here is to remind, I have set those boundaries for very good reasons! Everyone needs to take their own stance, stay in their own lane, define the terms that work for self... and keep self-occupied, again for good reasons! I am not responsible for someone's downtime nor am I responsible for keeping anyone entertained when I am not around. I will never go back to being responsible for how someone else feels. I am accountable for me and my responsibilities towards and for my part in all relationships but I will continue to do with what works best within the confines of the boundary I have set. What I am trying to achi...

It is coming down to that time of year when I need to seriously look at how far I have come! This year of 2018 has been compared to 2008, 2011 and the worst of 2013. If there was a theme song to this year it would be "St. Elmo's Fire." This year besides some wonderful day trips and a fabulous vacation 2018 has borderlined insanity! I have never seen so many ups and downs, back and forths... 2 steps forward and 8 hops back! I might; maybe can see daylight with a tunnel I am ready to get out of! I am very ready to head completely in another direction. Oh, I will still coach my creative mindset types! I still will strive to speak on relationships goals. I will still make many references to what I had to go through to get me to this stage in my life. I will absolutely still write and call out all behavior as I see fit! I did not take all those classes and study to let awareness and intelligence fall by the wayside! I will also strive to make it to a bigger platform and spea...

You can not undo what has already been done. You can not turn a blind eye to the things you choose to ignore and pretend it does not exist. You can not go through a new door until realizing the passage you chose before, left imprints that have not been forgotten and can be easily found. Turning a blind eye and having a deaf heart (leaving behind) does not yield you new rites to passage. Lesson's in life are repeated until learned. Everyone you meet either teaches you something or there is a lesson to be learned. It is not about what no longer serves you. This isn't about what coping skills you have developed to get you moving forward; so you don't have to deal with what has been caused or what someone has put you through or what you left behind: Those people thrive on drama, trauma, and chaos where ever they go. They will attract the same types over and over and over.  There will always be people who have a type and no matter how far that person may run or try to escape f...