Fight or Flight

 Sometimes in life, it has this disbelief sense of devaluing. All the things a person believes and fights for somehow in the end, it is the result not expected or accepted. We fight out of love, a passion, a reverence to hang on so tightly to what you or any person has struggled with to prove your points. Showing where you stand and how strong that ground is depends on character and when character proves to be a farce, it throws in the towel: giving up and just walking away!

Fight or flight is typically an automated response to a triggered encounter. When a person has been so wrongfully accused, it sends that rapid signal of fight for what you believe or flee because you are now treading in danger. A person who has been at war with themself, or fighting off the opinion of the general public is always hurdling over obstacles to remain intact. They develop a sense of armor always fending off the unwanted and unwarranted attacks seemingly in it for the fight of their life. It is not about being right but about having principles in the matter and sticking to a firm sense of self and how one has operated and maneuver through life!

My whole life I have been fighting for a sense of independence. My need to show and prove my way of thinking, believing, acting...making an income, my carefree style not conforming to the masses or following popular trend. It is an unorthodox way of existing and often it appears I am in survival mode. I do the things I have to do to get me through whatever the current situation is, more often than, it's just damn uncomfortable. It's how I have learned what works and what has not afforded an easy way of doing things but I still pursuit and fight for this type of independence. It's called being an entrepreneur!

A person's value and or sense of; depends on their motives and their purpose. Without purpose, there is no motive. Without motive, there is no drive and therefore a person just learns to exist in the nothing of autopilot mode. {ex: its a job I go to and I'll just get a paycheck} Whereas; I am not whole without having a purpose and the mission behind it... (to create is life and if I can not create therefore there is no life) My sense of value comes from how I have formed this life to share as an inspiration to others while surviving to make a living. My armor is very thick and to depend on another's way of existence often rubs me very wrong... money is not my motivator, yes it is helpful in many ways but what seems to be an easy flip of the dollar to some, it demeans my existence and how I choose to earn and participate in this life!

A person's identity is based on not who they are but how they came to be into this existence. While others have taken the easy way out or become so dependent on another for their survival, I have tried with great dignity to remain an enigma and not conform to the living condition in which I am being groomed to.  Without fail since March the struggle has become louder and my fight more vigorous going against every force thrown at me. I question everyone, "who thought for you before this pandemic political BS? Did you really need some figurehead to tell you, "you might get sick so stay home and not work. Give up your way of living and live off the system?" It goes back to a person's sense of value and purpose, it comes from the work that they do and how they go about doing it!

So as I watch so many who have just given up and given in... I am sickened by the thought of complacency and people who stopped thinking for themselves because they chose an easy way out. Conform! Live in autopilot and just throw in the towel! Believe the media and its mockingbird rhetoric and allow the power of suggestion to take over your life because some politician has said, "You might get sick." There is no science in that...ITS CALLED GASLIGHTING!

The power of suggestion will kill you far worse than some virus with a 98% recovery rate. It also will demean your mission making you terribly depressed because you're being told you can no longer do what you need to do to feel whole and alive!!!! Provide for yourself, your family...You have been told your way of living is now no longer valid... and that is just not acceptable under any circumstance!

I have sat back a bit more this year and studied the body language of many... I have read between the lines seeing who has funneled and laundered money in political rings to get ahead. While local politicians in dual conflicting positions have earned 6 figures plus, I am not about to let some yahoo tell me..."if I leave my home I may get sick." It comes back to; "who told you how to discern your health and way of living before this all happened?" 

My character is not giving up or giving in... it is not in me. Sadly I have become blatantly rude and called out the stupidity of those that have followed a poor rule of law and followed a mandate that is just ludicrous. Shall I jog for you too to help with your weight... or maybe you would like to wear a depends/diaper in case I have an issue with my bowels! Yes, that kind of ludicrous!

It all gets very old and hopefully now that a very unfair election has taken place people will start to think for themselves and live their life once again with purpose and a mission... giving back themselves a sense of value!


Kitryn Marie

#lifecoach #businesscoach #captalist #entreprenuer 













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