The Sum Of All Things
Right now with what you have to work with, look in the mirror. Assess your life! Does it add up? Can you look at where you are and with everything you have done for yourself and may have done towards another good or bad, does it make sense? Do your actions equal the sum of being a decent human being who has done the very best within oneself to do what has been best for another?
Do you realize self-executive decisions are not for you to make? You do not get to make a decision for another person's life without fully understanding the consequences of that action! If the action has been self-serving to get you off the hook from a responsibility or to get you out of a situation so you do not have to take accountability for the harm and damaged you caused, one needs to look in the mirror and seriously question all motives! How do you live with yourself knowing what you did? What you caused? and all the emotional upheaval that happened because of_________________! (fill in your own blank)
I very well understand, dating and being in any relationship (whether work or personal) is like trying on a glove. Sometimes things fit and most the times they don't fit! Then there are times you wear the glove and stretch it hoping its gonna fit and you make the very best out of the wear til its worn so thin... but because you formed it to fit and its so comfortable. You discard it to a safe place, you know how it fits just in case the new ones don't quite work out... and subsequently, you know where to go find them in that safe place! Gloves in pairs... many pairs! There my friends is the life of a player! A modern day Robin Hood... playing and taking and stashing... til its needed again!
When the sum of things and a timeline do not match, get out your personal calculator and be smart enough to do your own math! History repeats itself by margins at large and some people suck at math and do not see the letters(names) replaced by a number (of people that went before)
Case being: Why would it have been alright to reach out to the past (2005-2013)when the present (2012-2017) had been in place but yet the future?? (2017-) was waiting in the wings? Why was it alright for that person from the past to show up: here and there for (2013- 2018) seeking out that past timeline {2005-2013} other than knowing exactly where it was left and KNOWING how it was discarded other than to see if it still fit? The wide margin, being, wanting to see which would be the better offer! What would work better for that individual's personal account! And or what would be the common denomnator that would sell the future (2017-) a bill of sales not worth the trade amount! (SURE READ THAT AGAIN!) Fools gold!
We all have common denominators that make the numbers work but when thieving and deception have been put into place one must realize you are dealing with a Robin Hood of sorts! Let me take/steal something from another and I will give/play with you so it makes me look like a real life saver! So unless you are from some small town where it's been said (and yes it has been said!) you are slow and not so smart... get out your calculator! Some people will continuously build up their personal account taking and taking without you ever realizing it is going to cost you more than what you have!
If you are the third in line, a recipient of an engagement ring, have you bothered to ask about the other 2 rings and or the situations and how they too were "so lucky" to be asked a hand in marriage. [And if you believe then what was told, after you asked, it goes back to what was said... slow and stupid!] ( just recently, I found a Christmas card from someone's mom that was signed, ______, Your future mother n law) No three times is not charmed! 3 being the operative number!!!! Odd coincidence? No ... A Replacement!
Let's remember the number of woman that has lived in a person's house... the sum too exuberant! If all intentions were real, why did that person not move to your area? What bill of sale did you fall for? Was it his bait and switch act? What would make you buy something that you did not read all the facts on? Would you buy a car without knowing the "previous" owners and facts and history!!!!
I could continue, the sum of it all cost more than one's heart account! Weighing more than the human hearts compassion or empathy, draining all emotional accounts. Being personally robbed of so many things that should not have cost anyone a shred of decency! It has left 0 in a personal account and that account has been closed! There is no longer a need to have it open. Deceit robs people of trust and crushingly destroys the need to allow anyone to try to bank again!
I look in the mirror with what I have to work with! I am starting at scratch, a zero balance where I intentionally wanted to be after being a part for the biggest heist in this century. I am building another type of account. Filling it with my life's value and work. I have learned and studied values of another kind taking all of that and keeping it safe, locked where no one can get to it!!! I am being selective in that direction because too much has cost me my peace. (and my health) I have looked at the sum of things. No, all things still do not add up! (go back and read those dates!) Any way, that I look at that crazy equation, it does not match! I have read the numbers forward and backward and forward again it does not match! It does not add up!! How someone can steal so much from one individual's life for personal gain and think its ok to have done this type of deception is so unbeknownst to me and continue to reach out over a period of time thinking it would be just fine?! How do people live with themselves knowing exactly the horrific things they did to an individual!
So now I ask you one more time, Do your actions equal the sum of being a decent human being who has done the very best within oneself to do what has been best for another? How much have you gained by taking so much from another?
Winter is coming you better check your drawer for those gloves! You are gonna need them!
Meet Me In St. Louis,
Kitryn Marie
Life and Biz Coach
Do you realize self-executive decisions are not for you to make? You do not get to make a decision for another person's life without fully understanding the consequences of that action! If the action has been self-serving to get you off the hook from a responsibility or to get you out of a situation so you do not have to take accountability for the harm and damaged you caused, one needs to look in the mirror and seriously question all motives! How do you live with yourself knowing what you did? What you caused? and all the emotional upheaval that happened because of_________________! (fill in your own blank)
I very well understand, dating and being in any relationship (whether work or personal) is like trying on a glove. Sometimes things fit and most the times they don't fit! Then there are times you wear the glove and stretch it hoping its gonna fit and you make the very best out of the wear til its worn so thin... but because you formed it to fit and its so comfortable. You discard it to a safe place, you know how it fits just in case the new ones don't quite work out... and subsequently, you know where to go find them in that safe place! Gloves in pairs... many pairs! There my friends is the life of a player! A modern day Robin Hood... playing and taking and stashing... til its needed again!
When the sum of things and a timeline do not match, get out your personal calculator and be smart enough to do your own math! History repeats itself by margins at large and some people suck at math and do not see the letters(names) replaced by a number (of people that went before)
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Case being: Why would it have been alright to reach out to the past (2005-2013)when the present (2012-2017) had been in place but yet the future?? (2017-) was waiting in the wings? Why was it alright for that person from the past to show up: here and there for (2013- 2018) seeking out that past timeline {2005-2013} other than knowing exactly where it was left and KNOWING how it was discarded other than to see if it still fit? The wide margin, being, wanting to see which would be the better offer! What would work better for that individual's personal account! And or what would be the common denomnator that would sell the future (2017-) a bill of sales not worth the trade amount! (SURE READ THAT AGAIN!) Fools gold!
We all have common denominators that make the numbers work but when thieving and deception have been put into place one must realize you are dealing with a Robin Hood of sorts! Let me take/steal something from another and I will give/play with you so it makes me look like a real life saver! So unless you are from some small town where it's been said (and yes it has been said!) you are slow and not so smart... get out your calculator! Some people will continuously build up their personal account taking and taking without you ever realizing it is going to cost you more than what you have!
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Let's look at the real facts: When it's been said, " You can work and pay the bills and ya know take care of household things so I can concentrate on my business.( or my not so business because what you don't know won't hurt you!) ends up costing more than any building of a new relationship!If you are the third in line, a recipient of an engagement ring, have you bothered to ask about the other 2 rings and or the situations and how they too were "so lucky" to be asked a hand in marriage. [And if you believe then what was told, after you asked, it goes back to what was said... slow and stupid!] ( just recently, I found a Christmas card from someone's mom that was signed, ______, Your future mother n law) No three times is not charmed! 3 being the operative number!!!! Odd coincidence? No ... A Replacement!
Let's remember the number of woman that has lived in a person's house... the sum too exuberant! If all intentions were real, why did that person not move to your area? What bill of sale did you fall for? Was it his bait and switch act? What would make you buy something that you did not read all the facts on? Would you buy a car without knowing the "previous" owners and facts and history!!!!
I could continue, the sum of it all cost more than one's heart account! Weighing more than the human hearts compassion or empathy, draining all emotional accounts. Being personally robbed of so many things that should not have cost anyone a shred of decency! It has left 0 in a personal account and that account has been closed! There is no longer a need to have it open. Deceit robs people of trust and crushingly destroys the need to allow anyone to try to bank again!
**************************
I look in the mirror with what I have to work with! I am starting at scratch, a zero balance where I intentionally wanted to be after being a part for the biggest heist in this century. I am building another type of account. Filling it with my life's value and work. I have learned and studied values of another kind taking all of that and keeping it safe, locked where no one can get to it!!! I am being selective in that direction because too much has cost me my peace. (and my health) I have looked at the sum of things. No, all things still do not add up! (go back and read those dates!) Any way, that I look at that crazy equation, it does not match! I have read the numbers forward and backward and forward again it does not match! It does not add up!! How someone can steal so much from one individual's life for personal gain and think its ok to have done this type of deception is so unbeknownst to me and continue to reach out over a period of time thinking it would be just fine?! How do people live with themselves knowing exactly the horrific things they did to an individual!
So now I ask you one more time, Do your actions equal the sum of being a decent human being who has done the very best within oneself to do what has been best for another? How much have you gained by taking so much from another?
Winter is coming you better check your drawer for those gloves! You are gonna need them!
Meet Me In St. Louis,
Kitryn Marie
Life and Biz Coach
