The Standard to Which We Will Allow In Our Life and or To Live
Every once in a while a person needs to step back and examine their motives. We each have this idea and an expectation what we want in our life, what lengths we will go through to get it, a need for a standard to which we will allow in our life and or to live. We imagine and dream what is meant for our life because of our core, our traditions, what and who we have been influenced by and who we strive to become.
I have seen so many grubby handed men and women who have used and taken advantage of people to get ahead, to have their kids cared for, to get boob jobs, to have room additions put on, trips and concerts paid for, and or to have a place to live. I have seen it over and over these people will do almost anything to not have to do it for themselves. I often wonder where is their pride? Where is their work ethic? Who taught them this behavior and why do they think it is acceptable?
I have seen grown adults prey on their parents for money, to bail them out of trouble when things have gone into default. I have seen them purposely ignore and bite the hand that fed them, cared for them and was there when they needed them. I often question what kind of person does this? How does this happen?
I have seen people brag about how their house is paid for (when they did not pay for it them self), vehicles that were bought in cash and they boast about x amount of dollars paid (when they did not pay for it to begin with ... it was inheritance money left to them... nothing they earned them self) Trinkets and items, tv's and beds... they confiscated from whom they have been with... because they felt entitled. Again I ask, what kind of decent human being does this? Where is their conscience? How do they live with themselves and why do they think this behavior is ok?
Yes, we all need help! Yes, we all get into binds. Yes, we all have crises that take over our lives... but to live like this every day for most of their life...365 days a year... sickens me. To abuse and use and continue to take, as if it is, to be expected...and then to bad mouth and tell outright lies to make themselves feel good about their miserable life... Shameful! Absolutely shameful!
I will add with no pause, I have received plenty of help over a lifetime and even recently... for the recent, I am extremely grateful. There is though always someone to have that one deed thrown in my face as if to punish me for something that was completely out of my control and to have the situation turned on me instead of admitting the real truth to what was going on behind the scenes. When the real facts lie...
I have also been known to cut my nose off to spite my face... not taking help so nothing can be used against me ever again or thrown back in my face. I have gone months on end doing without... with the risk of losing so much just so I can figure it out on my own and be accountable for my responsibilities. I strive every day to make some kind of wage, earning, stipend. I work in many different positions as I can... trying to carve my niche in this world. I scrimp and save pennies and dimes knowing I have become so resourceful to the point I can squeeze a dime. I am called Ms. Frugal for a reason and my dad called it right, " Do it yourself, Kit!"
I have seen people sit in dive ass establishments and or community clubs claiming they are lending a helping hand, (what every day? when nothing is going on!) avoiding and shirking responsibilities for finding real work, the real meaning to life, avoiding real-life situations so they can continue to give idle lame ass excuses why they can not go and participate in real life. I have seen handouts given, tabs for drinks after drinks after drinks left ... I have seen theft, I have seen food eaten and taken. I have heard excuse after excuse after excuse on why they feel the need to be in such atrocities. ( it is not for the camaraderie... it's for the FREE! Trying to establish something within themselves where they connect to anything to feel whole because their life is so god awful empty.)
I have seen so many people blame the wrong person for their downfalls and yet they will go to person to person to person, relationship after relationship with absolutely no pause in between trying to fill a void so they are never without. They have spent a lifetime of taking advantage of others just so they are not empty-handed. Yet they will tell story after story... it is always someone else's fault or hides behind an occupation they claim to have that they don't do on any kind of a regular basis.
Saint I am not, savior I will never be... self-righteous only because I can see so many things for what it is. For every day I am not working or bringing some kind of $$$ amount into this household, it diminishes my existence and my self-worth. I will never be a rocket scientist, a lawyer and or a Dr. but I am a person who offers a valuable service. I am a person of a talent and a craft. I don't have to have all the answers but I do need to be aware of those that claim a problem for every solution. I help and guide people in seeing the real and discovering their own gifts so that they can offer something of service to someone else.
It is not the dollar amount in the bank account that matters. It's not about how much you make or how much is in your pocket. What matters is how you earned it!! What matters is your character behavior. What matters is your integrity that everyone sees in real time! What matters is that you are being productive and successful in this life doing what you can on your own! Not stealing time and energy draining something from someone you are expecting them to continuously give!
My dad used to say, " A fool and his money is parted... but a man that works every day for a living and takes pride in his life... will always be the richest man alive."
My grandpa used to say, " I would much rather work every day of my life knowing what I can do... never taking a hand out from a sole... or ever needing to be looking over my shoulder to someone I owe.
We all want this perfect life with the visions that are in our head but Every once in a while a person needs to step back and examine their motives. We each have this idea and an expectation what we want in our life, what lengths we will go through to get it, a need for a standard to which we will allow in our life and or to live. We imagine and dream what is meant for our life because of our core, our traditions, for what and who have influenced us... it is by these standards we strive.
To thine own self be true... one must look in the mirror and come to terms with one's selfish behavior at hand.
Meet Me In St. Louis
Kitryn Marie
If you are interested in learning more about finding your soul's purpose and or discovering your true talents... join my inner circle coaching group. It is a group session that meets once a month. Email kitrynmarie@gmail.com for more details.
To learn more about who I am and all the services I offer, please visit http://kitryn-marie.weebly.com
I have seen so many grubby handed men and women who have used and taken advantage of people to get ahead, to have their kids cared for, to get boob jobs, to have room additions put on, trips and concerts paid for, and or to have a place to live. I have seen it over and over these people will do almost anything to not have to do it for themselves. I often wonder where is their pride? Where is their work ethic? Who taught them this behavior and why do they think it is acceptable?
I have seen grown adults prey on their parents for money, to bail them out of trouble when things have gone into default. I have seen them purposely ignore and bite the hand that fed them, cared for them and was there when they needed them. I often question what kind of person does this? How does this happen?
I have seen people brag about how their house is paid for (when they did not pay for it them self), vehicles that were bought in cash and they boast about x amount of dollars paid (when they did not pay for it to begin with ... it was inheritance money left to them... nothing they earned them self) Trinkets and items, tv's and beds... they confiscated from whom they have been with... because they felt entitled. Again I ask, what kind of decent human being does this? Where is their conscience? How do they live with themselves and why do they think this behavior is ok?
Yes, we all need help! Yes, we all get into binds. Yes, we all have crises that take over our lives... but to live like this every day for most of their life...365 days a year... sickens me. To abuse and use and continue to take, as if it is, to be expected...and then to bad mouth and tell outright lies to make themselves feel good about their miserable life... Shameful! Absolutely shameful!
I will add with no pause, I have received plenty of help over a lifetime and even recently... for the recent, I am extremely grateful. There is though always someone to have that one deed thrown in my face as if to punish me for something that was completely out of my control and to have the situation turned on me instead of admitting the real truth to what was going on behind the scenes. When the real facts lie...
I have also been known to cut my nose off to spite my face... not taking help so nothing can be used against me ever again or thrown back in my face. I have gone months on end doing without... with the risk of losing so much just so I can figure it out on my own and be accountable for my responsibilities. I strive every day to make some kind of wage, earning, stipend. I work in many different positions as I can... trying to carve my niche in this world. I scrimp and save pennies and dimes knowing I have become so resourceful to the point I can squeeze a dime. I am called Ms. Frugal for a reason and my dad called it right, " Do it yourself, Kit!"
I have seen people sit in dive ass establishments and or community clubs claiming they are lending a helping hand, (what every day? when nothing is going on!) avoiding and shirking responsibilities for finding real work, the real meaning to life, avoiding real-life situations so they can continue to give idle lame ass excuses why they can not go and participate in real life. I have seen handouts given, tabs for drinks after drinks after drinks left ... I have seen theft, I have seen food eaten and taken. I have heard excuse after excuse after excuse on why they feel the need to be in such atrocities. ( it is not for the camaraderie... it's for the FREE! Trying to establish something within themselves where they connect to anything to feel whole because their life is so god awful empty.)
I have seen so many people blame the wrong person for their downfalls and yet they will go to person to person to person, relationship after relationship with absolutely no pause in between trying to fill a void so they are never without. They have spent a lifetime of taking advantage of others just so they are not empty-handed. Yet they will tell story after story... it is always someone else's fault or hides behind an occupation they claim to have that they don't do on any kind of a regular basis.
Saint I am not, savior I will never be... self-righteous only because I can see so many things for what it is. For every day I am not working or bringing some kind of $$$ amount into this household, it diminishes my existence and my self-worth. I will never be a rocket scientist, a lawyer and or a Dr. but I am a person who offers a valuable service. I am a person of a talent and a craft. I don't have to have all the answers but I do need to be aware of those that claim a problem for every solution. I help and guide people in seeing the real and discovering their own gifts so that they can offer something of service to someone else.
It is not the dollar amount in the bank account that matters. It's not about how much you make or how much is in your pocket. What matters is how you earned it!! What matters is your character behavior. What matters is your integrity that everyone sees in real time! What matters is that you are being productive and successful in this life doing what you can on your own! Not stealing time and energy draining something from someone you are expecting them to continuously give!
My dad used to say, " A fool and his money is parted... but a man that works every day for a living and takes pride in his life... will always be the richest man alive."
My grandpa used to say, " I would much rather work every day of my life knowing what I can do... never taking a hand out from a sole... or ever needing to be looking over my shoulder to someone I owe.
We all want this perfect life with the visions that are in our head but Every once in a while a person needs to step back and examine their motives. We each have this idea and an expectation what we want in our life, what lengths we will go through to get it, a need for a standard to which we will allow in our life and or to live. We imagine and dream what is meant for our life because of our core, our traditions, for what and who have influenced us... it is by these standards we strive.
To thine own self be true... one must look in the mirror and come to terms with one's selfish behavior at hand.
Meet Me In St. Louis
Kitryn Marie
If you are interested in learning more about finding your soul's purpose and or discovering your true talents... join my inner circle coaching group. It is a group session that meets once a month. Email kitrynmarie@gmail.com for more details.
To learn more about who I am and all the services I offer, please visit http://kitryn-marie.weebly.com
Act like a lady, think like a boss... work hard and then learn to work harder! People are watching...
Kitryn Marie
