Where The Sidewalk Ends The Road Begins...
Where the sidewalk ends and the road begins, it all has to do with what you will tolerate and put up with.
What you allow to continue will manifest and take over in your life. Like that stray, mooch, and taker that will not go away... stop feeding it. Whatever that entity is that has consumed your life, stop with the handout and it will have to find its source elsewhere. Kick it to the curb!
It has become hard enough to exist on your own without someone else draining your pockets, taking up your space and using you for a shelter and a meal ticket. Someone who is looking for the easy way out... someone who has thought "well I if I just move here the burden of self-responsibility will be lifted or if I move in with you, my financial woes will cease to exist."
We have a country full of addicted behavioral people that are looking for an easy way out. Addicted manipulated individuals that have bull dozed their way in with their pathetic standard of a lifestyle placing responsibility for them self on to another. It has become the oddest hold over certain individuals...
Yes, life has become extremely difficult to financially manage over the last decade but I am appalled at what people will tolerate in their life so they do not have to be alone in the fight to survive. It no longer is a matter of wanting the same thing. It has become a matter of what is easy for that person, Who they can take advantage of and or what they will not have to do on their own to make their life count for something. Accountability has taken the strangest turn.
We all need help at some point in our lives and it is ok when in need at a time or two to ask for help and receive assistance but it is not ok to make a continued lifestyle out of someone's generosity and then berate them for not doing more to help aid in their survival. The person now has enabled the taker... and the behavior continues.
I am even more aggravated when couples become so dependent on each other's finances because they are afraid to go it on their own. When there is nothing left in their relationship but a business arrangement and they are stuck in situations that no longer behoove why they are together. They have extended themselves so far out on a branch purchasing things they don't need, vacations no one needed to take and extra curriculur activities that did not need to take place.
Then there are the parents who have children who feel entitled to their parent's hand outs. That parent that feels so guilty for whatever reason keeps giving and giving. Stop!!... You have already created a monster! And you have set them up for failure!!! That kid will NEVER meet the standard in which you have provided. And because of that lifestyle, you have provided... in every other person they meet, they will expect the same. It is a vicious cycle.
It no longer is the oppressed... it's the lazy. A country full of takers vs. those of us trying to do the correct thing and do it the right way. It's pride for self and what one has achieved on their own!!! It is bad enough when we have a govt that wants to dictate and thrust an economic class upon us. Where the middle class has now been forced to have provisions (that do not work!) because greed has taken on a fight with those that feel entitled.
I am a single woman living day to day. A lifestyle where I do not want to be dependent on anyone but myself. I work and then I thrive on being an entrepreneur! The small income I make does not make me destitute and my want for a relationship will not be dependent on someone else's finances and what they can do for me! I'm not making millions hell I'm not making tens of 1000's but I am surviving on my own without the need to be dependent on another human being. Yes, there was a time when I did need the assistance, it fed not only my child but someone else's too! (and although it was thrown in my face it didn't stop any of them from eating!) Temporary assistance because of a need in a temporary situation!
No one sets out to be financially destitute. No one wakes up one morning and says hey I think I'll lose my job, but there are those that think with the mentality ... "there is always going to be someone who I can depend on and I can and will take advantage of that because I know they will allow it!"
Where the sidewalk ends the road begins...
Cut your loss and lose your mooch! Stop feeding it and it will go away! It's fat enough! What you allow will continue! And what you tolerate will NEVER go away!
Meet Me In St. Louis,
Kitryn Marie
What you allow to continue will manifest and take over in your life. Like that stray, mooch, and taker that will not go away... stop feeding it. Whatever that entity is that has consumed your life, stop with the handout and it will have to find its source elsewhere. Kick it to the curb!
It has become hard enough to exist on your own without someone else draining your pockets, taking up your space and using you for a shelter and a meal ticket. Someone who is looking for the easy way out... someone who has thought "well I if I just move here the burden of self-responsibility will be lifted or if I move in with you, my financial woes will cease to exist."
We have a country full of addicted behavioral people that are looking for an easy way out. Addicted manipulated individuals that have bull dozed their way in with their pathetic standard of a lifestyle placing responsibility for them self on to another. It has become the oddest hold over certain individuals...
Yes, life has become extremely difficult to financially manage over the last decade but I am appalled at what people will tolerate in their life so they do not have to be alone in the fight to survive. It no longer is a matter of wanting the same thing. It has become a matter of what is easy for that person, Who they can take advantage of and or what they will not have to do on their own to make their life count for something. Accountability has taken the strangest turn.
We all need help at some point in our lives and it is ok when in need at a time or two to ask for help and receive assistance but it is not ok to make a continued lifestyle out of someone's generosity and then berate them for not doing more to help aid in their survival. The person now has enabled the taker... and the behavior continues.
I am even more aggravated when couples become so dependent on each other's finances because they are afraid to go it on their own. When there is nothing left in their relationship but a business arrangement and they are stuck in situations that no longer behoove why they are together. They have extended themselves so far out on a branch purchasing things they don't need, vacations no one needed to take and extra curriculur activities that did not need to take place.
Then there are the parents who have children who feel entitled to their parent's hand outs. That parent that feels so guilty for whatever reason keeps giving and giving. Stop!!... You have already created a monster! And you have set them up for failure!!! That kid will NEVER meet the standard in which you have provided. And because of that lifestyle, you have provided... in every other person they meet, they will expect the same. It is a vicious cycle.
It no longer is the oppressed... it's the lazy. A country full of takers vs. those of us trying to do the correct thing and do it the right way. It's pride for self and what one has achieved on their own!!! It is bad enough when we have a govt that wants to dictate and thrust an economic class upon us. Where the middle class has now been forced to have provisions (that do not work!) because greed has taken on a fight with those that feel entitled.
I am a single woman living day to day. A lifestyle where I do not want to be dependent on anyone but myself. I work and then I thrive on being an entrepreneur! The small income I make does not make me destitute and my want for a relationship will not be dependent on someone else's finances and what they can do for me! I'm not making millions hell I'm not making tens of 1000's but I am surviving on my own without the need to be dependent on another human being. Yes, there was a time when I did need the assistance, it fed not only my child but someone else's too! (and although it was thrown in my face it didn't stop any of them from eating!) Temporary assistance because of a need in a temporary situation!
No one sets out to be financially destitute. No one wakes up one morning and says hey I think I'll lose my job, but there are those that think with the mentality ... "there is always going to be someone who I can depend on and I can and will take advantage of that because I know they will allow it!"
Where the sidewalk ends the road begins...
Cut your loss and lose your mooch! Stop feeding it and it will go away! It's fat enough! What you allow will continue! And what you tolerate will NEVER go away!
Meet Me In St. Louis,
Kitryn Marie
