You Are Never Too Old And It Is Never Too Late
You are never too old and it is never too late but it is smart to question all motives involved and be very aware of those that are in something just to gain something for the wrong reasons. Whether it be in business or personal relationships. Always do your homework and see what others in your like-minded groups are doing. Although there is more than enough to go around, no one should feel like they are competing with some entity that does not even compare to who you are or what you are trying to achieve.
There is always going to be a critic and there will always be someone who is jealous of your efforts and success. The old adage says, " Be aware of the gossip from a man who can't have her and from the women who will never be able to compete!" Also be aware of those that pit against you all the accomplishments you have achieved but yet will find one tiny flaw in what you do and make a very big deal out of it! Jealously is a monster of its own. Know when to walk away and continue to do your thing with your head held high and with pride!
Be careful of the ones that want to cry wolf; the world has done them wrong. They made the poor choice and now are wallowing in their bad decisions not taking accountability but placing blame on someone where blame should not even have entered that other person's equation. They exaggerate and play bluff games to see who and what kind of attention they can get without changing their behavior and or life patterns! Be very mindful of the ones that are looking for someone to do all the work for them and then will take claim and credit for what you did to help them to further their existence. (Narcissism plays out in business too!) Be leary of the ones that claim to be needing help and you exhaust yourself helping in efforts only to realize somewhere down the line... they just did not want to participate in general and were looking for someone to pick up the slack so they did not have to do a thing but yet it looked like to others they were in it to win it!
Boundaries and guidelines need to be set in all situations. Seriously know what you are capable of! Know your limits! Know who you are getting in bed with! (both in business and in personal relationships! Do your homework!) Know where and when you need help, delegate and then let the person help. Relinquish! Make a tentative plan and try to adhere to a deadline and or a date. Too many people are wishy-washy in decision making and will make stupid excuses and often cause a ruckus to not meet the date scheduled. (Fearful is one thing but be very aware of the person's behavior leading up to the date) One that is not serious and true to his motives will upset that apple cart and cause quite the disruption of plans.
Although what I do is not presidential, I have set quite the limits and boundaries on my personal time and my business tactics. I function better on my own when making personal choices for myself. I know the space I need is better off for everyone involved! As an introvert and a woman who has been single for so long I have functioned solo for years so to spend small fragments of time with someone, allows time and duration to build. I am not going to make a rash decision because someone else thinks this is what "I" need. When it comes to my business practices I have a detailed outline of what I am going to do and an intention on how I plan to execute the time frame. I can bounce ideas off of someone but ultimately it is my decision on how this is all going to go down! I am a woman who is simple with a very complicated mind. I know what I am trying to achieve and I don't want someone else telling me different. I am very well aware of trial and error but I need to do the trial and error at my own pace on my own accord! I spent too many years with a fool who wasted his life making horrific choices chastizing my dreams and my talents, diminishing my intelligence to overcompensate for his lack of! I am not about at this point to go off track because someone wants to suggest another road. Call it harsh, Call it cold, call me a bitch... don't care! This is my goal and I am dedicated to seeing it all come to fruition! If I need help, I know who I can ask and I know the request will be met with competence and I can trust my need will be met with intelligence and reassurance they are on the same page!
This is a large portion of the coaching sessions I hold. This is what I want to know/ teach and then ask: What is the dream? What do you know how to do in comparison to the dream? Have you done any homework/research in regards to such? Who is supporting you? Who is your worst critic? What in your plan have you written down? Where is your outline? Do you have a timeline? What is your launch date? What do you think you need to do to take that step? What are you hiding from? Who is holding your back? Why are you afraid? Where were you 5 years ago? How far have you come? Where do you see yourself in 6 mos, 1 year, 2 years 5years? When you look in the mirror what do you see? etc etc etc...
Everything in this life is based on a perspective and perceptions. People are typically influenced by the 5 closest to them. If your life circles around addictive people and those that cause drama and cry wolf all the time, you will not be very successful at anything! Those that follow the masses thinking they can hitch a ride on someone else coattails really do not get very far in this life. Train derailments happen all the time... too many hitch on to what some think "the ride of their life".Only to prove the biggest disaster in real time personal history! The problem is the recovery from personal injury is something that takes years to get over and a longer time to heal and repair the damage. (bodily, financially, emotionally and mentally.) It is important and imperative not to vere from your calling or who you are as a true individual, able to function on your own. There is huge difference in being alone and being lonely. There is a larger margin not being able to survive on your own on your own cognizance, where your thoughts don't need constant reassurance from someone else who can not fight their way out of a wet paper bag or off a bar stool!
To be supportive of one or to have someone be supportive of you, it does not depend on their approval of why and what you do. #1. if you don't like what you are hearing, stop telling that person what you are trying to achieve. #2 if you can not get the approval from someone, realize you do not need their approval and detach your idea of thinking you need their approval! Remove them from your equation!
We all need money to survive and sometimes it takes methodical planning to keep the dollars flowing but if you work in an environment that works for you instead of you working for it... you will never become stuck in a grind! Avoid the corporate pitfall let life work for you on your terms. Dig deep and look at what you have to work with from inside.
You are not too old and it is never too late. You don't know how things will be if you never take that leap of faith and gear up for a life that is meant for you and you ALONE! Change can happen when you allow it to happen! Stop being afraid of the "what if" start saying "It is and I am doing... Name it and claim it!" Then do it!
If you would like to learn more and become part of my Creators Mind Set Program sign up for my coaching session. (local St. Louis Mo area)65.00 for a 1 on 1 2 hours of innovative life lessons that allow you to change your path! or from anywhere a video chat/online 1 hour $35.00 Go over to my website at http://kitryn-marie.weebly.com to learn more and please sign up https://kitryn-marie.weebly.com/sign-up-for-all-up-coming-events-and-news.html for the latest news and to receive information about my Creators Mind Set Retreat set for April of 2019 in the beautiful Ozark Mountains at Tablerock Lake!
Feel free to send any inquiries to kitrynmarie@gmail.com Follow me on all the social networks and subscribe to my YOUTUBE Channel. I look forward to hearing from you!
Meet Me In St. Louis
Kitryn Marie
Life and Biz Coach
There is always going to be a critic and there will always be someone who is jealous of your efforts and success. The old adage says, " Be aware of the gossip from a man who can't have her and from the women who will never be able to compete!" Also be aware of those that pit against you all the accomplishments you have achieved but yet will find one tiny flaw in what you do and make a very big deal out of it! Jealously is a monster of its own. Know when to walk away and continue to do your thing with your head held high and with pride!
Be careful of the ones that want to cry wolf; the world has done them wrong. They made the poor choice and now are wallowing in their bad decisions not taking accountability but placing blame on someone where blame should not even have entered that other person's equation. They exaggerate and play bluff games to see who and what kind of attention they can get without changing their behavior and or life patterns! Be very mindful of the ones that are looking for someone to do all the work for them and then will take claim and credit for what you did to help them to further their existence. (Narcissism plays out in business too!) Be leary of the ones that claim to be needing help and you exhaust yourself helping in efforts only to realize somewhere down the line... they just did not want to participate in general and were looking for someone to pick up the slack so they did not have to do a thing but yet it looked like to others they were in it to win it!
Boundaries and guidelines need to be set in all situations. Seriously know what you are capable of! Know your limits! Know who you are getting in bed with! (both in business and in personal relationships! Do your homework!) Know where and when you need help, delegate and then let the person help. Relinquish! Make a tentative plan and try to adhere to a deadline and or a date. Too many people are wishy-washy in decision making and will make stupid excuses and often cause a ruckus to not meet the date scheduled. (Fearful is one thing but be very aware of the person's behavior leading up to the date) One that is not serious and true to his motives will upset that apple cart and cause quite the disruption of plans.
Although what I do is not presidential, I have set quite the limits and boundaries on my personal time and my business tactics. I function better on my own when making personal choices for myself. I know the space I need is better off for everyone involved! As an introvert and a woman who has been single for so long I have functioned solo for years so to spend small fragments of time with someone, allows time and duration to build. I am not going to make a rash decision because someone else thinks this is what "I" need. When it comes to my business practices I have a detailed outline of what I am going to do and an intention on how I plan to execute the time frame. I can bounce ideas off of someone but ultimately it is my decision on how this is all going to go down! I am a woman who is simple with a very complicated mind. I know what I am trying to achieve and I don't want someone else telling me different. I am very well aware of trial and error but I need to do the trial and error at my own pace on my own accord! I spent too many years with a fool who wasted his life making horrific choices chastizing my dreams and my talents, diminishing my intelligence to overcompensate for his lack of! I am not about at this point to go off track because someone wants to suggest another road. Call it harsh, Call it cold, call me a bitch... don't care! This is my goal and I am dedicated to seeing it all come to fruition! If I need help, I know who I can ask and I know the request will be met with competence and I can trust my need will be met with intelligence and reassurance they are on the same page!
This is a large portion of the coaching sessions I hold. This is what I want to know/ teach and then ask: What is the dream? What do you know how to do in comparison to the dream? Have you done any homework/research in regards to such? Who is supporting you? Who is your worst critic? What in your plan have you written down? Where is your outline? Do you have a timeline? What is your launch date? What do you think you need to do to take that step? What are you hiding from? Who is holding your back? Why are you afraid? Where were you 5 years ago? How far have you come? Where do you see yourself in 6 mos, 1 year, 2 years 5years? When you look in the mirror what do you see? etc etc etc...
Everything in this life is based on a perspective and perceptions. People are typically influenced by the 5 closest to them. If your life circles around addictive people and those that cause drama and cry wolf all the time, you will not be very successful at anything! Those that follow the masses thinking they can hitch a ride on someone else coattails really do not get very far in this life. Train derailments happen all the time... too many hitch on to what some think "the ride of their life".Only to prove the biggest disaster in real time personal history! The problem is the recovery from personal injury is something that takes years to get over and a longer time to heal and repair the damage. (bodily, financially, emotionally and mentally.) It is important and imperative not to vere from your calling or who you are as a true individual, able to function on your own. There is huge difference in being alone and being lonely. There is a larger margin not being able to survive on your own on your own cognizance, where your thoughts don't need constant reassurance from someone else who can not fight their way out of a wet paper bag or off a bar stool!
To be supportive of one or to have someone be supportive of you, it does not depend on their approval of why and what you do. #1. if you don't like what you are hearing, stop telling that person what you are trying to achieve. #2 if you can not get the approval from someone, realize you do not need their approval and detach your idea of thinking you need their approval! Remove them from your equation!
We all need money to survive and sometimes it takes methodical planning to keep the dollars flowing but if you work in an environment that works for you instead of you working for it... you will never become stuck in a grind! Avoid the corporate pitfall let life work for you on your terms. Dig deep and look at what you have to work with from inside.
You are not too old and it is never too late. You don't know how things will be if you never take that leap of faith and gear up for a life that is meant for you and you ALONE! Change can happen when you allow it to happen! Stop being afraid of the "what if" start saying "It is and I am doing... Name it and claim it!" Then do it!
If you would like to learn more and become part of my Creators Mind Set Program sign up for my coaching session. (local St. Louis Mo area)65.00 for a 1 on 1 2 hours of innovative life lessons that allow you to change your path! or from anywhere a video chat/online 1 hour $35.00 Go over to my website at http://kitryn-marie.weebly.com to learn more and please sign up https://kitryn-marie.weebly.com/sign-up-for-all-up-coming-events-and-news.html for the latest news and to receive information about my Creators Mind Set Retreat set for April of 2019 in the beautiful Ozark Mountains at Tablerock Lake!
Feel free to send any inquiries to kitrynmarie@gmail.com Follow me on all the social networks and subscribe to my YOUTUBE Channel. I look forward to hearing from you!
Meet Me In St. Louis
Kitryn Marie
Life and Biz Coach
