A Bird's Eye View
If you started with what you know and what you were capable of doing, could you imagine how far you could get and how quickly you would get there? With all that you have experienced in life and in love, think of all the things you have endured and gotten through? The good not outweighing all the shitty things that have occurred or the horrific behaviors of what has been done... but look We are all standing! Experience shapes us and molds us into beings we NEVER thought we would become. Some turn into monsters wreaking havoc in others lives and some recover from the monsters and go on to a higher valued life filled with purpose and meaning!
I stopped looking at things in a straight view a long time ago. My view now more of a triangular shape a bird's eye view with a peripheral vision that extends to what most dare to even view. (that is only because of how intuitive I am. I sometimes can see and predict what is going to happen. Like I have said, I know more than what I usually say.) I always leave room for error and I leave room to grow. The only thing I do not take too serious anymore is how quickly things can change. I know for many facts just because you think you are one path watch out for that BUMP that obstacle that you will need to get around! Learning to maneuver around life's challenges! Better than a girl scout... always be prepared while remaining in check with self and all motives. Life happens and we manage the best we know how with what we have to work with! Anxiety is a son of a bitch... but we deal and go on in spite of what our heart and mind fight over!
I have developed a scoreboard for keeping track of the things I need to balance my life and my work. I have found it too easy to be obsessed with being passionate in my work. It consumes my thoughts and as a creative minded woman, those tabs that keep opening in my mind... never close. I learned how to funnel success through my passionate hobbies and have turned my creative dream into a gold mine! Becoming a life and a business coach was the best thing that could have ever happened in my life! An accident waiting to happen by grand design or divine intervention! Sometimes the courage and intelligence a person has waits for the most significant time to surface and then takes off like a 5k marathon!
I am an artist, a writer, a speaker, an instructor and a life and a biz coach! Not only do I teach lovely little art and crafty projects but I then turn around and show creative-minded woman how they too can make $$$$$$$$$ at doing what they love! I teach women that it is ok to have dreams and encourage them to talk their walk! and then walk their talk! I show women how to discover their God-given talents. I instruct women how to hone in on what they know how to do and then market and sell what they have created!
All those years I sat at home recovering from illness and loss, I learned the importance of having a blog and a website. I studied from other great minded creative individuals that taught me tools and tricks to help others. I provide a one-stop service all the while I still get to make pretty things and then get to showcase either live or through video my talents! See in order to become successful, you need to promote yourself and become the face of your own brand! Us girls that are too into ourselves become successful at our trade and we leave pieces of glitter everywhere for others to be reminded of who we are and what we are ALL ABOUT!
Why would you not want to flaunt your inner beauty to compliment your external beauty? Have a photo-shoot done! Show the world what you have to offer (No, we are not trashy for having photo shoots done! Only an insecure person will want to keep you and your talents hidden! ) Like my dad use to say, "IF YOU ARE GONNA BE A BEAR, BE A GRIZZLY!" Dazzle them with your bravery and courage! Let your dream live out loud outside of a box someone else wanted to put you in!
It is not the norm to be surrounded my addicted souls but if that is the only environment you know, you will become the average of the 5 individuals you surround yourself with. Your co-dependence will never allow you to grow! You become stuck living in a situation that douses your dreams and desires. You will never awaken, grow and evolve if you keep surrounding yourself with selfish, egotistical maniacs that get off on controlling you! (yes harsh and brutal but the truth hurts! and if you think I am lying, start making plans on what you want to do for YOU! See where that conversation leads you. Odds are if it takes away from your partners ideal of life... There ya go! Boom bam and an argument explodes) Been there done that and now someone else's huge problematic mistake!
I stopped looking at things in a straight view a long time ago. My view now more of a triangular shape a bird's eye view with a peripheral vision that extends to what most dare to even view. (that is only because of how intuitive I am. I sometimes can see and predict what is going to happen. Like I have said, I know more than what I usually say.) I always leave room for error and I leave room to grow. The only thing I do not take too serious anymore is how quickly things can change. I know for many facts just because you think you are one path watch out for that BUMP that obstacle that you will need to get around! Learning to maneuver around life's challenges! Better than a girl scout... always be prepared while remaining in check with self and all motives. Life happens and we manage the best we know how with what we have to work with! Anxiety is a son of a bitch... but we deal and go on in spite of what our heart and mind fight over!
I have developed a scoreboard for keeping track of the things I need to balance my life and my work. I have found it too easy to be obsessed with being passionate in my work. It consumes my thoughts and as a creative minded woman, those tabs that keep opening in my mind... never close. I learned how to funnel success through my passionate hobbies and have turned my creative dream into a gold mine! Becoming a life and a business coach was the best thing that could have ever happened in my life! An accident waiting to happen by grand design or divine intervention! Sometimes the courage and intelligence a person has waits for the most significant time to surface and then takes off like a 5k marathon!
I am an artist, a writer, a speaker, an instructor and a life and a biz coach! Not only do I teach lovely little art and crafty projects but I then turn around and show creative-minded woman how they too can make $$$$$$$$$ at doing what they love! I teach women that it is ok to have dreams and encourage them to talk their walk! and then walk their talk! I show women how to discover their God-given talents. I instruct women how to hone in on what they know how to do and then market and sell what they have created!
All those years I sat at home recovering from illness and loss, I learned the importance of having a blog and a website. I studied from other great minded creative individuals that taught me tools and tricks to help others. I provide a one-stop service all the while I still get to make pretty things and then get to showcase either live or through video my talents! See in order to become successful, you need to promote yourself and become the face of your own brand! Us girls that are too into ourselves become successful at our trade and we leave pieces of glitter everywhere for others to be reminded of who we are and what we are ALL ABOUT!
Why would you not want to flaunt your inner beauty to compliment your external beauty? Have a photo-shoot done! Show the world what you have to offer (No, we are not trashy for having photo shoots done! Only an insecure person will want to keep you and your talents hidden! ) Like my dad use to say, "IF YOU ARE GONNA BE A BEAR, BE A GRIZZLY!" Dazzle them with your bravery and courage! Let your dream live out loud outside of a box someone else wanted to put you in!
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It is not the norm to be surrounded my addicted souls but if that is the only environment you know, you will become the average of the 5 individuals you surround yourself with. Your co-dependence will never allow you to grow! You become stuck living in a situation that douses your dreams and desires. You will never awaken, grow and evolve if you keep surrounding yourself with selfish, egotistical maniacs that get off on controlling you! (yes harsh and brutal but the truth hurts! and if you think I am lying, start making plans on what you want to do for YOU! See where that conversation leads you. Odds are if it takes away from your partners ideal of life... There ya go! Boom bam and an argument explodes) Been there done that and now someone else's huge problematic mistake!
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More than not; a natural talent has no other way but to eventually surface! YOUR higher power says, " ok its time! Now let me take care of this and show those naysayers how I created you!" He has been mindful of the stories told... a liar will spin that web and when the truth is revealed that picture and timing from that higher powers hand will boldly be planted and put in front of everyone's face! Showcasing the creative beautiful individual he has created! The truth is a hard pill to swallow for that liar when deceit has been his only meal. (ticket)
Self-worth comes from realizing all the things one person is capable of and truly realizing what you have to offer to someone else and a world that needs so much! It isn't about money or how much is in your bank account! It is about being responsible and accountable for yourself, your life and your actions towards another! No one wants to be involved in a self destructive train wreck. Personal relationships that become derailments are hard to recover from... individuals exhaust themselves helping those that only see that one way of viewing things! Please do yourself a favor... get off the train! Hop that track!
Past behavior always presents itself. Lessons in life are repeated until learned... I can not say this enough. Recognizing the behavior than choosing not to do anything about it is settling on a miserable comfort zone. It takes hard work to change and leave the environment that is not healthy or productive or conducive to the life that you are meant to live. One needs to pay attention to the signs and the warnings and all the red flags going off. Just because you want a certain life does not mean you are going to live that life promised. Listen closely to the dialog! See it for how it is... not for how you want to believe it is going to be!
Yes, my scoreboard is rating nicely! I have learned to separate in my life the toxic to the healthy, the selfish to the selfless! I have added joy and passion and removed anger and regret! I have overcome complicated and replaced it with simplicity... I have taken all the empty promises and filled it with a cup that runneth over with fulfilled dreams!
I in return pay it forward and teach other creative-minded women who just want more out of life not to settle because someone filled their mind with pretty charming words and gave them an offer! Some offers come with a no return policy, stealing from you in so many ways! I teach women cue words to look for... I show clear examples of how a player with mess with your head, heart and life! Love and true partnerships build with you not take away and diminish! For a woman to mold herself in her man's life and he does nothing in return or reciprocate is not a partnership. It is a one-sided relationship... leaning towards his needs only. Also I teach women how a man will use money as a controlled weapon! It is a slippery slope that will leave you in a torrential distress!
Yes, I have been made very fortunate taking all the lessons I have learned and now paying it forward. Taking my gifts and talents and creating a passionate life mentoring those that just want more! Those that now want to take their talents and make money creating a life that is meant for their highest good!
If you would like to learn more please reach out to kitrynmarie@gmail.com Go over to my website http://kitryn-marie.weebly.com and sign up today for your creative mindset coaching session. Let me show you too how to look at things with a bird's eye view giving you a spectacular peripheral vision!
Please also go over and sign up https://kitryn-marie.weebly.com/subscribe-up-coming-events-and-news.html for all the details being put together for April of 2019 a 3 day Creative Mind-Set retreat in the beautiful Ozark mountains right outside Branson Mo. We will be talking about creating the life you deserve! The importance of building a blog, writing powerful content and how to showcase you and your product. We will be doing a mini photo shoot so that you will be able to use for your social media sites and we will be doing an art project! And so much more!!!
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Kitryn Marie
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