Do Over Moments... Could You? Would You?
I want to ask any of you that are reading, go back into your life and find that one moment that you would like to do over? Do you have a do-over moment? Go back to that time and rethink, relive every action and let the memory play by play live out in your psyche. Reliving that moment, how does it feel? Reflecting back how does it look? Listen to the words you or someone else may have spoken. How does it sound?
Pinnacle moments in our lives often times cannot be redone or relived or thoroughly mentally replanned. It is these monumental moments that have put us on this path that we are currently living. These were direct choices of that time. To redo, would possibly erase specific people, academic achievements, ceremonies, vacations, job promotions etc etc... Each of our lives has to do with the trickle-down effect and the choices we made. This occurred and from that occurrence, it resulted in and it affected... You can call it the action and the response mode, you can call it the benefit or the consequence moments or you can call it... you were in that place at that time because it was meant to play out the way fate had it planned. Lessons in life!
Lessons in life are repeated until learned!! The teaching that came but you chose not to use hindsight to see where it would take you. And now I ask, what path are you on? Where ya going? Do you really see how you got here?
The definition of insanity; keep doing the same thing thinking you are going to get a different outcome. Some people are so reluctant to see their own actions and what really happened. They refuse to see what they caused and the ball they got rolling. This self-observatory assignment is so "one" can take accountability in the occurrence as it happened. A person that is so regimented in his personal behavioral routine won't recognize the pattern... which results in subjecting himself to the same type situations and or people... repeating the same occurrence over and over.
The scariest moments in our life come from stepping outside of everything you know and risking everything you have to become something other than what you have lived. Change can be difficult if you refuse to let go of the patterned lifestyles you have been accustom to. It is very easy to stay in a miserable comfort zone. It takes no effort to stay stuck. You never evolve and grow into that higher purpose when staying stagnant and expecting others to reform to your muddied way of life. It is a fate worse than death. There is no room for growth and to be planted emotionally in concrete is a horribly selfish act towards someone else.
You are not a tree. You have no roots... get up and do something different! Change it is the only constant in our lives. It continuously flows... it is a fluid motion. It does not stay the same... Here is the thing about reflecting back. If you are bold enough to admit where you went wrong in your life and you can honestly see and say, "because I did this... this is what happened!" You have a greater vision for using hindsight now. Hindsight is 20-20! I am not saying you have to be prophetic... but looking back... look at how you chose? Look at what you based your decisions on? And look where you are now?
In a nutshell... right now what path are you on? Who are you dragging with you? Are you living the same life? Same type surrounding? Faces different but the same? How is your health? What you put in your body is a reflection of the choices you make. The people you associate with is a direct reflection of your character!! How you choose to live your life is a direct correlation to your thought process. How you manage your money is a direct link to the dollar mindset you have. How you spend your money is a choice based on wants or needs! (Money does not bring you happiness but it certainly affords you stuff...to brag about. Material gains that have no real emotional value.)
Recognition of self and understanding why we choose the way we have is a tool we each can benefit from. That tool helps us to be better individuals. That tool helps us associate with better people of character. That tool allows us to recognize why we need to use hindsight so when we are old we never have to look back and say, "My god I should have never done that!"
We will never get that chance for the "back to the future" moment but we will get to look back and reflect later in life knowing we made better choices for the future we did plan to live. It will be those pinnacle moments in our life that we will reflect upon knowing, we would not want to change one bit of what we did. Our hind sight always 20-20!
Meet Me In St. Louis
Kitryn Marie
Pinnacle moments in our lives often times cannot be redone or relived or thoroughly mentally replanned. It is these monumental moments that have put us on this path that we are currently living. These were direct choices of that time. To redo, would possibly erase specific people, academic achievements, ceremonies, vacations, job promotions etc etc... Each of our lives has to do with the trickle-down effect and the choices we made. This occurred and from that occurrence, it resulted in and it affected... You can call it the action and the response mode, you can call it the benefit or the consequence moments or you can call it... you were in that place at that time because it was meant to play out the way fate had it planned. Lessons in life!
Lessons in life are repeated until learned!! The teaching that came but you chose not to use hindsight to see where it would take you. And now I ask, what path are you on? Where ya going? Do you really see how you got here?
The definition of insanity; keep doing the same thing thinking you are going to get a different outcome. Some people are so reluctant to see their own actions and what really happened. They refuse to see what they caused and the ball they got rolling. This self-observatory assignment is so "one" can take accountability in the occurrence as it happened. A person that is so regimented in his personal behavioral routine won't recognize the pattern... which results in subjecting himself to the same type situations and or people... repeating the same occurrence over and over.
The scariest moments in our life come from stepping outside of everything you know and risking everything you have to become something other than what you have lived. Change can be difficult if you refuse to let go of the patterned lifestyles you have been accustom to. It is very easy to stay in a miserable comfort zone. It takes no effort to stay stuck. You never evolve and grow into that higher purpose when staying stagnant and expecting others to reform to your muddied way of life. It is a fate worse than death. There is no room for growth and to be planted emotionally in concrete is a horribly selfish act towards someone else.
You are not a tree. You have no roots... get up and do something different! Change it is the only constant in our lives. It continuously flows... it is a fluid motion. It does not stay the same... Here is the thing about reflecting back. If you are bold enough to admit where you went wrong in your life and you can honestly see and say, "because I did this... this is what happened!" You have a greater vision for using hindsight now. Hindsight is 20-20! I am not saying you have to be prophetic... but looking back... look at how you chose? Look at what you based your decisions on? And look where you are now?
In a nutshell... right now what path are you on? Who are you dragging with you? Are you living the same life? Same type surrounding? Faces different but the same? How is your health? What you put in your body is a reflection of the choices you make. The people you associate with is a direct reflection of your character!! How you choose to live your life is a direct correlation to your thought process. How you manage your money is a direct link to the dollar mindset you have. How you spend your money is a choice based on wants or needs! (Money does not bring you happiness but it certainly affords you stuff...to brag about. Material gains that have no real emotional value.)
Recognition of self and understanding why we choose the way we have is a tool we each can benefit from. That tool helps us to be better individuals. That tool helps us associate with better people of character. That tool allows us to recognize why we need to use hindsight so when we are old we never have to look back and say, "My god I should have never done that!"
We will never get that chance for the "back to the future" moment but we will get to look back and reflect later in life knowing we made better choices for the future we did plan to live. It will be those pinnacle moments in our life that we will reflect upon knowing, we would not want to change one bit of what we did. Our hind sight always 20-20!
Meet Me In St. Louis
Kitryn Marie
