Asthetics...But Really, How Does Your LIfe Feel?

 Portray the life, you choose to live and see what shows up for you! The universe has a very keen sense of what you desire versus God, who sometimes has some off-the-cuff sense of humor. Go ahead though and plug away at all the aesthetics, aligning the look, the life, the plan, and the goal, and then match it with your words! {Hear how it all sounds}

Once a person has configured the words and you can hear how you want your life to sound; listening to the phonetics and the way dialogue just rolls off your tongue... you will have almost mastered the art of manifestation. The next key will be tricky because honestly if you are not believing what you are saying, you will not be able to feel what that life's emotions will offer you. {you might need to read that 2ce}

Too often, if not always, people do not pay attention to how something makes them feel. Somewhere along in their growing-up environment, they were taught to stuff feelings away and just act in some auto-pilot mode to get through whatever situation was at hand. It was never about how you felt but how it could make you look to others! Image... (The unruly child who became unglued at being dismissed or neglected naturally would throw a fit. They are not getting their way. What is the go-to phrase a parent will use? We have all heard it! "Do you see how you're acting? Your disposition is bad. Do you want _______ to see you acting like this?") Shame and embarrassment are what is being taught. In other words, you are not supposed to feel hurt, disappointed or angry, so just stuff all that emotion away because the image is what is important here not your feelings.

In the back of our brain is the amygdaloid that sits in the hippocampus. It is the components that store our memory and emotions. It also is the place that stores all of our traumas. Locked deep away are occurrences that have told us not to have an emotion about the situation but yet through the years we will ruminate on how things played out. Dismissing any emotion because we chalk it up to experiences in our lives that were supposed to teach us how to be better adults. Don't think, don't feel, just do as I say... because people are watching! "How will that make us look?" As we age, We then start to formulate logic and the rules of dismissal, "it wasn't that big of a deal, probably wasn't meant to be, It wasn't all that important. Guess it doesn't matter anyway."  Hence, our emotions are not validated and we just learn to accept and deal with how things are (in black or white.)

So imagine seeing your life the way you want it to play out down to the details. Now start talking about how you want this life and WATCH how people react to your requisitions.  Those that have only been taught logic and dismissal will think your crazy. They will think you have a screw loose! They will automatically put down your idea and they will systematically tell you how your dream life is not going to work...because logic has taken over, and there are scars over their amygdaloid. [For other intended purposes, brainwashing does this also; a tactic the military uses. Leave all emotion out of any equation...don't feel, don't think...just act out as you have been ordered, you are a machine]

Just as YOU have been taught logic more like brainwashed, your imagination has been diminished so equating this fantastical dream life has been summed up to no more than a pipe dream in some imaginary made-up unrealistic daydream...but for giggles, let us just say, (I) you were taught to be happy. (I) you were taught to live out your dreams regardless of how it looked to others just as long as (I) you were responsible for your choices! that made you feel...ALIVE with joy! Presently living in an emotion you resonate with down to your soul!

I am going to give you this scenario... how you interpret this story depends on how you can resonate with it. A few years back, on one of my daily outings with my then-person; we stumbled across this magical piece of property. On a morning we set out to thrift and do some high-end yard sale-ing. He was telling me a story about an uncle who had this house that sat back on old highway 100, he talked about how he wished it would have stayed in the family. As he reminisced about this land, all logic seemed to drift from his words. I listened amusingly because it was not often imagination intertwined with his stories. Anywho as we found this really nice house in this gorgeous subdivision...3 sisters something or another, we were talking about finding land with a house where I could have horses. (this was before my Ruby girl) While we rummaged through this huge 4-car garage filled with everything known to man... an old lady overheard our conversation. She says, "I have a piece of property like that" We looked up and stared at her. She then proceeds to say, "it is for sale too"  He shot me this look like...serendipity had hit him over the head. {I live this kinda life so I was not surprised by our encounter} Needless to say, she invited us over! Near where his uncle had his land and house.

Not missing a beat we bought what we had in our hands and with no haste followed the lady to her home. Nestled in the most enchanted setting was a brown clapboard home, modest with a huge wrap-around back deck that overlooked 6 acres. Set between the 6 acres a bustling creek that babbled a vision right out of a Disney movie. I had to go walk the creek. I seriously looked for the deer and the gnomes all to come out. It was a fairytale in every which way you could imagine! My person stumbled into the barn... the lady then told the story of how her husband died and her daughter was sick and a stepson had been killed in a car accident. All tragic... the emotion that welled up in that property's story in spite of the scenic enchantment. Of course, while he looked through tools making an offer to the woman who just wanted to liquidate what she had, downsize, and leave behind what no longer served her.

We stood dead center on that property. A lovely garden enclosed by chicken wire fencing, a barn that very easily would have housed 4 horses. A creek that would have yielded summer fun with grandkids and who knows what wildlife and fishing adventures would have come out of that stream. His imagination was running wild! and for just a moment in time, I thought, FINALLY HE GETS IT!

Now although I can see visions and predict some things with my imagination always running rampant; I knew at this point logic was going to set in at any moment. Can I just say too... I am a very intelligent woman. I do understand the makings of how money always plays a part in everything and I was not daft about the pricey tag that came with this dream situation... but to set the record straight we are talking about imagination and emotions right now!

Emotion and imagination are combatible forces you do not want to mess with! Once logic is thrown out of an equation, conversation and dialogue take place and a person starts to talk in regard to how the situation would make them feel. Once a person starts (repeatedly) to feel how that situation is going to reside within them, it makes the opportunity seem real therefore, the amygdalin starts to believe things as if they are happening in real-time; setting up occurrences because you are believing them to already be true! PLEASE RE-READ THAT!

That piece of property stayed in our conversations for 2 months! even though reality had disappointingly set in!

My point in all of this is; talk out loud about what you want! Can you feel yourself in that situation? What is the emotion that bubbles up when you can envision the life you want to live? Does it really matter how it looks to anyone else? Does it really matter how others view your life and or your dream goals? If it makes you happy! When was the last time you were happy about anything you talked about? Is the life you are currently living making you happy? What is that emotion with what you got going on?

 Portray the life, you choose to live and see what shows up for you! Now match your words to this life and believe it already to be true! The Universe and God amazingly will show up to match your vibration! Imagination and emotions are powerful manifesting tools! Learn to use it and use it often!

If you would like to learn more about this theory please book a VISION BOARD CLASS. It is 35.00 a person and you must have a min group of 10. There is a list of supplies you will need!


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Be Happy Be Blessed!

Kitryn Marie






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