History Has A Remarkable Way Of Repeating
I do not have all the answers! Although there are still some questions that need to be answered! History has a remarkable way of re-surfacing and repeating itself and in order to move past and or forward some subjects need to be brought up repeatedly to get right down to the bone-chilling truths.
Do people ever really realize how bad they screwed up a situation? How by looking for a trade-off searching for something better they ended up with something much worse? Do those same people look at how their one misguided major mistake; it set a fireball in motion and it altered the course for their life? Do those same people stop and think "OMG look what I did and what it created?": as their life goes up in emotional flames?
Maybe someday someone will explain to me why someone who had a really good life would choose to throw it away on some lesser valued human whose existence was dependent on having a good time. ( For a man, A stiff dick has no conscious possibly a soul that is black hollow and empty but what did his eyes see when not in that altered state of REVENGE? and for a woman how pathetically desperate could she be that she would purposely and intently set out to lay claim to someone she had no right too and with no moral conscious as long as she was having... something put down her throat for the sake of a Good Time?) Snake charmer syndrome: Look into my eyes... I have the ins on... getting you in the bag! A deadly game of deception!
What plays in the mind...
Do woman not look back and see the type of other women he has been with? Are they too blindly foolish to think, "well he is with me now so it does not matter?" Hello, are you ridiculously stupid? That factor plays a huge role. If that man has been with every bar skank up and down a stretch and has been in more v.g..a's then specs of sand on the beach. You better stop and go get your vaj-jay checked by a Dr. and have your head examined while you are at it!
That supposed committed relationship... You know the one he pranced in front of everyone eyes!
Sacred, there are parts of that intimate relationship that is not to be shared with anyone. It gives no one a right to veere, stray or explore outside that union. There is such a trust factor in that bond. Even after that situation occurs it will play out in that woman's mind time and time again. The defense mechanism that is built up always will surface never allowing anyone to put her in a vulnerable situation again. Once trust is obliterated it takes mountains on earth to move before she will ever again consider anyone to get that close. In her mind, she is always resorting back to who he was with and that type of creature that his manly body part was in.
A woman who is desperate will cling to any charming words that promise her "something she has never had before" A snake charmer will offer you the comforts of... all the while poisoning you with his deception and his deluded past. Ill-fated affairs that he hopes will never surface because you have now fallen under his spell. That same possible woman who is looking for somewhere to better raise her child/ren inevitably puts her child in harm's way by introducing her to that poisonous environment without knowing all the previous facts and or factors. Would it not be odd for a man with grown children who spent more time away from his parental responsibilities to now all of a sudden have a great interest in a young child that is not his or nowhere near his children's age? Why would that man take on that burden of raising that child? What would be in it for him? Unless his delusions of a charmed life would keep someone under lock and key for the sake of... "but look what I am offering you?" A snake pit full of lies.
I have seen more women fall prey to a man because they got caught up in the hype of romance. All the right words at the right time. Online trolling through dating sites looking for some resolutions while he is looking for some absolutions! Just for the sake of having ...ANYONE WHO CAN NOT LEAVE. Emotionally hijacking is a dangerous game of romance roulette to a NARCISSIST!
I am not a Dr., a psychologist or anything that remotely has an MD behind my name. I am though a woman who had lost her identity, heart, and soul over a man I desperately loved. It has taken years to see exactly how much I lost in my committed years to him. "You can not tell a woman where to put her heart just as much as you can't tell a man what to do" In my current position I can not make anyone do anything that they refuse to see... but it is my obligation and my duty to bring up all points of awareness for the sake of saving a life. You may feel with your heart but sister you better take your brain along with you and see things for how they really are and not for how you HOPE things are going to be!
People talk and people see things far beyond what that blind heart says or sees. People do not change! In order for there to be change, one has to recognize actions and be accountable for repeated behavior. To keep sweeping issues under a rug to forget the past in order to have a future... it does not happen. That mound that gets swept under that personal carpet eventually trips you up and you have once again created more damage to be controlled.
Perfect I am not; a claim I have made quite a few times in my life. We each create idiosyncrasies and coping skills to survive. Mine often do not make sense to others but it is for my protection, not theirs. I do not have all the answers but this I will say very loudly, there are still some questions that need to be answered! History has a remarkable way of re-surfacing and repeating itself and in order to move past and or forward some subjects need to be brought up repeatedly to get right down to the bone-chilling truths.
If you would like to learn more about your personal truths, I suggest you sign up for one of my coaching classes and take one of my VISION BOARD classes. Where you can learn how to recognize all the good things meant for your highest good. please visit kitryn-marie.weebly.com to learn more
There is nothing worse than knowing you have made a complete fool out of yourself and everyone sees it but you!
Meet Me In St. Louis,
Kitryn Marie
PS There are 7 billion people in this world. If this hits a nerve only you know why it hits a nerve.
Do people ever really realize how bad they screwed up a situation? How by looking for a trade-off searching for something better they ended up with something much worse? Do those same people look at how their one misguided major mistake; it set a fireball in motion and it altered the course for their life? Do those same people stop and think "OMG look what I did and what it created?": as their life goes up in emotional flames?
Maybe someday someone will explain to me why someone who had a really good life would choose to throw it away on some lesser valued human whose existence was dependent on having a good time. ( For a man, A stiff dick has no conscious possibly a soul that is black hollow and empty but what did his eyes see when not in that altered state of REVENGE? and for a woman how pathetically desperate could she be that she would purposely and intently set out to lay claim to someone she had no right too and with no moral conscious as long as she was having... something put down her throat for the sake of a Good Time?) Snake charmer syndrome: Look into my eyes... I have the ins on... getting you in the bag! A deadly game of deception!
What plays in the mind...
Do woman not look back and see the type of other women he has been with? Are they too blindly foolish to think, "well he is with me now so it does not matter?" Hello, are you ridiculously stupid? That factor plays a huge role. If that man has been with every bar skank up and down a stretch and has been in more v.g..a's then specs of sand on the beach. You better stop and go get your vaj-jay checked by a Dr. and have your head examined while you are at it!
That supposed committed relationship... You know the one he pranced in front of everyone eyes!
Sacred, there are parts of that intimate relationship that is not to be shared with anyone. It gives no one a right to veere, stray or explore outside that union. There is such a trust factor in that bond. Even after that situation occurs it will play out in that woman's mind time and time again. The defense mechanism that is built up always will surface never allowing anyone to put her in a vulnerable situation again. Once trust is obliterated it takes mountains on earth to move before she will ever again consider anyone to get that close. In her mind, she is always resorting back to who he was with and that type of creature that his manly body part was in.
A woman who is desperate will cling to any charming words that promise her "something she has never had before" A snake charmer will offer you the comforts of... all the while poisoning you with his deception and his deluded past. Ill-fated affairs that he hopes will never surface because you have now fallen under his spell. That same possible woman who is looking for somewhere to better raise her child/ren inevitably puts her child in harm's way by introducing her to that poisonous environment without knowing all the previous facts and or factors. Would it not be odd for a man with grown children who spent more time away from his parental responsibilities to now all of a sudden have a great interest in a young child that is not his or nowhere near his children's age? Why would that man take on that burden of raising that child? What would be in it for him? Unless his delusions of a charmed life would keep someone under lock and key for the sake of... "but look what I am offering you?" A snake pit full of lies.
I have seen more women fall prey to a man because they got caught up in the hype of romance. All the right words at the right time. Online trolling through dating sites looking for some resolutions while he is looking for some absolutions! Just for the sake of having ...ANYONE WHO CAN NOT LEAVE. Emotionally hijacking is a dangerous game of romance roulette to a NARCISSIST!
I am not a Dr., a psychologist or anything that remotely has an MD behind my name. I am though a woman who had lost her identity, heart, and soul over a man I desperately loved. It has taken years to see exactly how much I lost in my committed years to him. "You can not tell a woman where to put her heart just as much as you can't tell a man what to do" In my current position I can not make anyone do anything that they refuse to see... but it is my obligation and my duty to bring up all points of awareness for the sake of saving a life. You may feel with your heart but sister you better take your brain along with you and see things for how they really are and not for how you HOPE things are going to be!
People talk and people see things far beyond what that blind heart says or sees. People do not change! In order for there to be change, one has to recognize actions and be accountable for repeated behavior. To keep sweeping issues under a rug to forget the past in order to have a future... it does not happen. That mound that gets swept under that personal carpet eventually trips you up and you have once again created more damage to be controlled.
Perfect I am not; a claim I have made quite a few times in my life. We each create idiosyncrasies and coping skills to survive. Mine often do not make sense to others but it is for my protection, not theirs. I do not have all the answers but this I will say very loudly, there are still some questions that need to be answered! History has a remarkable way of re-surfacing and repeating itself and in order to move past and or forward some subjects need to be brought up repeatedly to get right down to the bone-chilling truths.
If you would like to learn more about your personal truths, I suggest you sign up for one of my coaching classes and take one of my VISION BOARD classes. Where you can learn how to recognize all the good things meant for your highest good. please visit kitryn-marie.weebly.com to learn more
There is nothing worse than knowing you have made a complete fool out of yourself and everyone sees it but you!
Meet Me In St. Louis,
Kitryn Marie
PS There are 7 billion people in this world. If this hits a nerve only you know why it hits a nerve.
