What's Your Plan-Demic?

 If we sit back and ideally look at life over the last 6 months, can you say you are happy with your choices! With all of your heart full decisions knowing that do or die you made the right move in the correct direction? If we can compare the last 6 months with the last, oh let's say, 8 years, have you consciously made strides in getting your life right in the manner it needed to be for personal fulfillment, long term joy, and peace of consciousness. (mind)


How comfortable are you; with the job you have, the place you reside, who you answer to, and whom you associate with? All and all is your being of self-content with all matters sitting right within your soul? For all the shutdowns and people you have shut out, the words of defense and the words of anger, are you happy with the tone you have set for your current lifestyle?


Back and forth is tedious, a waste of energy and effort although people make a career out it. The high and low of boredom and routine that sets in. People are witness to the uglier side of lethargy... and when the commonalities of life have been shut down, couples have had to face the every day of  NOTHING and view a more true side of what a relationship needs. (to keep going) Fun can not be had all the time and neither can sitting around staring at a TV or your partner for entertainment value either... {that right there; a definition of insanity}


Being creative and bringing that creative side to your relationship in times of despair, plan-demics and other unsightly travesties need to stay fresh! Even if sex is and has been a priority it too can get very stale and put into the system check mode... to make sure, at least all bodily functions still work at the moment it needs to work! But what happens when that no longer is a priority? The aging of all relationships and work that has to be put in and get your body prepared for that type of physical activity... intimacy and the creative expressions that need to be emphasized elsewhere to keep the spark alive! 


The understanding of chemistry is so ignored. {the things that get you!} The importance of your physical appearance and the attributes that keep you healthy. The things that allow you to keep your eye on the prize and your focus on the reality that is needed to keep your life all together! I don't think chemistry ever goes away but what draws a person to another [commonality] often goes away becoming a hindrance or an annoyance if that has been the only thing to keep a couple together. Whereas chemistry the natural attraction for the human being due to physical attributes, mental interpretation, or familiarity of a soul it never fades; it just adjusts to how people keep evolving with time.


Individual space and recognizing when the other person needs that time to fulfill, reenergize and repower their attributes so that chemistry becomes stronger. Also adding in the introvert, extravert or the omni-vert you have come to love and adore needs that down-time or boost of exertion to feel complete and whole; Leaving the omni-vert that needs a little of both and often at the same time.


My physical appearance has not changed too much over the last 6 mos but in comparison to 8 years...ALOT! My mental interpretation although has gone through quite the overhaul and my soul is still the same old soul it has always been. There are parts of my personality that have been tested and lately, I've been compared a lot to my dad. I smile begrudgingly... I've just become very protective over my actions and my tolerance to BS comes off often not so nice. If you want sugar-coated, go buy a doughnut! Ayn Rand once wrote a piece on the virtues of selfishness and taking that approach is often very misunderstood. I know longer listen to words, I watch actions. I am from Missouri so show me and then really prove it! Promises are too empty and filling in words where actions need to be taken... mean nothing to me!


While this shut down has occurred over a course of 6 months, I am taking my own advice and getting back into the swing of fulfilling my life's course work. I have sat to idle waiting/watching for something to change(although I have remained adamantly vocal) when I know I am the one in control of my life... my personal choices for my life's work means very much to me and those who have not known where to turn.


 I have hated the words in these "unprecedented times" or as we face these "challenges"... blah blah blah. How anyone wants to believe what has transpired depends on your station and lot in life. There are sheep and there are wolves. If you haven't been able to make sense of the nonsense and you have been terrified to live... you are a sheep. If you have sat back and did a little homework on politics, been very vocal to how your life has been desecrated and continued to call out the lies and pointing out very valid points not showing mercy... You are a wolf!


A person really needs to sit and reflect on their own actions and beliefs over this last 6 mos and then compare all of that to the last 8 years. When you choose the same, you get what you got! If you have evolved and ventured outside your own couch and head and taken inventory in your moves, motives and the way you have operated through life...


This plan-demic may have worked to your advantage! So now what will be your next move?


Kitryn Marie

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