Pretty In Pink... Perfect In Paisley!

In the last several weeks, I have been defining the end of the year 2018 results. The good, the bad, the indecisive and the guidelines I have set for "staying in your own lane!" With those boundaries in place, I am reminding myself the goal in mind what I need to achieve for me! I  clearly see my end result of where 2019 is going to take me. What is important here is to remind, I have set those boundaries for very good reasons! Everyone needs to take their own stance, stay in their own lane, define the terms that work for self... and keep self-occupied, again for good reasons! I am not responsible for someone's downtime nor am I responsible for keeping anyone entertained when I am not around. I will never go back to being responsible for how someone else feels. I am accountable for me and my responsibilities towards and for my part in all relationships but I will continue to do with what works best within the confines of the boundary I have set. What I am trying to achi...

It is coming down to that time of year when I need to seriously look at how far I have come! This year of 2018 has been compared to 2008, 2011 and the worst of 2013. If there was a theme song to this year it would be "St. Elmo's Fire." This year besides some wonderful day trips and a fabulous vacation 2018 has borderlined insanity! I have never seen so many ups and downs, back and forths... 2 steps forward and 8 hops back! I might; maybe can see daylight with a tunnel I am ready to get out of! I am very ready to head completely in another direction. Oh, I will still coach my creative mindset types! I still will strive to speak on relationships goals. I will still make many references to what I had to go through to get me to this stage in my life. I will absolutely still write and call out all behavior as I see fit! I did not take all those classes and study to let awareness and intelligence fall by the wayside! I will also strive to make it to a bigger platform and spea...

You can not undo what has already been done. You can not turn a blind eye to the things you choose to ignore and pretend it does not exist. You can not go through a new door until realizing the passage you chose before, left imprints that have not been forgotten and can be easily found. Turning a blind eye and having a deaf heart (leaving behind) does not yield you new rites to passage. Lesson's in life are repeated until learned. Everyone you meet either teaches you something or there is a lesson to be learned. It is not about what no longer serves you. This isn't about what coping skills you have developed to get you moving forward; so you don't have to deal with what has been caused or what someone has put you through or what you left behind: Those people thrive on drama, trauma, and chaos where ever they go. They will attract the same types over and over and over.  There will always be people who have a type and no matter how far that person may run or try to escape f...