Setting the Boundary For Respect and ALL Healthy Relationships
My women coaching mantras: A guy: "Can you come out and play?" ME: Uh No, I am not available! I have responsibilities and obligations! ( or flat out, I am not available) I can not at the spur of the moment stop and drop to accommodate your "option" lifestyle. (while you are keeping the possibilities open for something better to come along) If you want my time, plan something concrete with me! This my dear people is how you set up boundaries. You are setting the guidelines to what will work in your life. It is a foundation for respect to be built up! I think this is why we all live by a calendar! It's called social scheduling! Too many women will fall hook line and sinker for the guy that will leave her hanging... she will wait around putting her life on hold while he is out looking for other options (the better offer) something that suits his availability Or he is already doing his thing with no regard for anyone else's time. (He is set and rigid in...